A note about women who convert and hijab

Submitted by Numina (Norway), Nov 6, 2020 at 15:57

Dear Elizabeth,

I have read your post very attentively and although I disagree with some little things I will get into shortly, I could not agree more on the whole message.

I myself have witnessed too these men teaching each other about how to con a western older divorced woman, how to lie about not even being Muslim and ask asylum for this reason, extending visas upon lies, having their visa-wives pregnant for the sake of their permanent residence to leave them later for their teenager-arranged-homecountry wife who more often than not is their cousin. I have seen all these atrocities happening in European countries. And you specially mention this man from Pakistan. Well, there's a great website for women involved with Pakistani men called "Marrying a Pakistani man" which has more than up-to-date and trustful information. They were raised in dire poverty and managed to survive. They only learnt one thing in life: using their intelligence to overcome poverty under any circumstances, no matter how. And yes, they feel kafirs are too way inferior. They dream of a whole world turned into the Islamic beliefs and know well that thanks to birth rate-growing number, the number of Muslims are increasing rapidly.

That's why, Elizabeth, being a joke or not, for them is important to convert infidels. Because they're contributing to spreading Islam! And yes, believe me they care what Allah would say on the very last day. They LIE because their religion allows them to lie in many situations, speciallyis to spread Islam and also to gain something from Katie's that they do believe being fair. Do not think for an instant that they don't care about what Allah commands. They don't care if the women do for the sake of love or for Allah. They will oblige their women if they plan to keep them as second, third or fourth wives. They don't care if their love for Islam is genuine or not as long as they obey their men.

Also, Elizabeth, understand that hijab is a must according to the Qur'an and it's irrefutable. You can see many islamic websites where this is widely debated but offers no discussion. Although many Muslim women living in western countries opt not to wear it, believe me in this, if the man wants to keep the woman in the marriage will push and oblige her to use it, as if she doesn't do, it's a sign of disobedience to her husband that he will not tolerate. Of course, if it's a visa marriage, he will not give a *** if the woman wears it or not of if she goes to the church or wherever. These women are hidden from their families. What a dishonour! For less than this, honour killings are perpetrated in some Islamic countries.

As for the rest you have narrated, it is outstanding information which I really hope women re-read and bear in mind.

Thank you for sharing your experience and knowledge. I hope it helps many women.

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