3 readers online now  |  69 million page views

Muslim Marriages the REAL WAY

Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men

Submitted by Alicia (United States), Feb 4, 2021 at 23:03

"If you are not Muslim by birth, they will reject you." This is so true. Thank you for clearing out all of the BS these people like to add.

Muslim people since children are brought up to hate the West and Non-Muslims. They are preached this in their Mosques, in schools and at home. It is written in their Quran, they recite these words and it becomes engraved in their mind and soul. They carry this with them from children to adulthood.They believe Non-Muslims sit around the table and conspire against them and that we hate them and that we preach so badly about them. Yet non of them have ever opened up a Torah or a Bible to see that nothing, NOTHING about ISLAM was ever written. Don't believe me, just visit a church or synagogue. Read the Bible. We don't speak about you!

They go on in life and move to Non-Muslim countries and met Christians, Jews and other Non Muslims just to find out everything they were brought up to believe is a lie. We don't cheat, we could care less about their religion and culture and we help others. But still when given a opportunity they WILL cheat a Non Muslim and then blame it on the Non-Muslim for being a Kafr or for not understanding "culture". Muslims like Adja don't care about anyone else but themselves. Let it be known, you read it here first, don't let them FOOL or DECEIVE you. They only care about themselves and their own benefits and if given a opportunity to cheat or deceive a Non Muslim, she will. She lives in the West, she could have stayed in her country but she is here reaping the benefits of the WEST, living a life she could never live in her OWN country, riding on her high horse, sending out her salams, writing comments as a "Happy Muslim Wife" clearly on a WEB SITE dedicated to show the truth about ISLAM - on a FORUM in the WEBSITE titled advice for NON MUSLIM women. Just in case anyone gets confused.

The maids she speaks about are paid less than a $1 a day for work. Maybe $50 a month if they are lucky - for 7 hour days cooking and cleaning 5 days a week. This is how Muslims treat their OWN people. The majority of these maids are women who have no father, no husband or a husband that have left them high a dry for another wife. These maids are poor women and sometimes children, people who need help, nothing to be proud of. The privilege she so highly speaks of only makes up, if only 10% of her country, unless you live in the Gulf or Saudi, then it's more like 25% of the population. As the rest of the population are poor and middle class Arabs, and almost half are expats Muslims they bring in who are treated like garbage and get paid less than minimum wage. The rest are the beautiful Kafr Asian maids they like to employ, underpay and rape. Don't believe me, just read the news. Oh and it happens in Pakistan too, not the Asian house keeper part but in the rapping of their maids whether it be a boy or a girl part.

The Princess that Adja speaks so highly of is false, she doesn't exist. Maybe here in the West, in a Christian country she is finally able to be a princess - but in Pakistan, in her culture, with all them women? No... No. Those women are jealous, jealous, jealous and more jealous. They are surrounded by their sisters, cousins, sisters in laws, mothers in laws, aunts, haram police relatives and more women who are constantly getting into their business and mother in laws who won't leave their sons alone. They believe a lot in the evil eye and say mashallah a thousand times because they can't stand one woman even getting a smidge ahead or even a minute of happiness with her own husband. What's worse it's their own Muslim relative who has this jealousy. Their own flesh and blood. They TEAR their own women down. It's more like a dictatorship in those homes than the fairy tale she wants you to believe in. What Lina wrote about honor killing is just the beginning. Read about it, they even do this to children. Those women have to swallow their saliva, think twice before they speak and always remain in line, even if you are rich. If you are unlucky and poor, May God Almighty protect you.

Marriage is NOT based on culture and religion just as Adja stated, if it were then there wouldn't be so many unhappy Muslim men cheating on their Muslim wives with Kafrs. She comes here for a reason, and to help is not one of them. Adja post here a lot in the past but just under A different name. Read how she writes. She is not happy, she is not helping anyone but her own selfish ego.

Unless you are a Muslim, the rest of the world they marry for respect, love and partnership. Granted people change, marriages do fail. But respect, this is what makes a long marriage lasting. Mutual Respect, it doesn't matter if you are Greek, Italian, Irish, Chinese or American. I have seen MANY marriages of different cultures that are happy and that do not hate, look down on and discriminate because their wife is a Non-Muslim - the way Muslims people DO. Adja wrote that "You will have a very slim chance of success in our culture" This is not because the culture is different but because they will never accept a Non-Muslim. They will never respect you, trust you, appreciate you. It's not about culture it's about you not being Muslim even if you revert.

These Muslim women are only happy when they are young and new. But then again who isn't? They are only happy when they are shiny - then their own men get tired of them. These Muslim men have no shame, no respect, not even for their own wives. At least not to their faces. I wish we could all pull up our internet accounts just to prove how many Muslim men are out there constantly stalking, messaging - looking for other women and if you block them, they will only make up another fake account. Good grief. See how a Muslim man mind works? They can't take no. They are allowed to have up to 4 wives. How can you even think of marrying someone who has even had this though about you?

These Muslim women get married young, have 3, 4 or 5 kids and then what? They are 35, 40, 45 and guess what? They are old - their breast are down to their knees. They are fat, they gained all this weight, their hair is falling out, all they do is stay home, cook, clean. Their husband won't sleep with them. Their back is hurting them, their husband is making less money then before, their mother and sister in law hate them, their children are driving them crazy, it's hot in their Muslim country and to top it off their Muslim husbands are sleeping in a different bedroom chatting all night with their internet girlfriends and wanting a second wife. It's hard being a Muslim woman.

Dressing appropriately is something all women should do. But what's the point in dressing just to put on a show - when in fact inside you are evil. May God have mercy on you. It's like the Egyptian mummies, on the outside they make it look nice and neat while on the inside the corpse rots underneath.

Ladies, don't let anyone belittle you, don't let ANYONE ever think they are better than you because of their religion, cloths or culture. A good person doesn't even have to speak and when they enter a room the goodness pours out of them. Everyone knows they are good. Be good inside where it counts.

They are not better off then any one of us. Time is scary beacuse it catches up with everyone, along with the evil that you do. It doesn't matter how old you are, one day we will all die, one day we will all be on our death bed wishing we did things right or better. Live life for now, love yourself, respect yourself, do what makes you happy, live your life for YOURSELVES. Stop wasting precious time on these Muslims or Muslim men who doesn't deserve it.

Submitting....

Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".

Comment on this item

Mark my comment as a response to Muslim Marriages the REAL WAY by Alicia

Email me if someone replies to my comment

Note: Opinions expressed in comments are those of the authors alone and not necessarily those of Daniel Pipes. Original writing only, please. Comments are screened and in some cases edited before posting. Reasoned disagreement is welcome but not comments that are scurrilous, off-topic, commercial, disparaging religions, or otherwise inappropriate. For complete regulations, see the "Guidelines for Reader Comments".

See recent outstanding comments.

Follow Daniel Pipes

Facebook   Twitter   RSS   Join Mailing List

All materials by Daniel Pipes on this site: © 1968-2021 Daniel Pipes. daniel.pipes@gmail.com and @DanielPipes

Support Daniel Pipes' work with a tax-deductible donation to the Middle East Forum.Daniel J. Pipes

(The MEF is a publicly supported, nonprofit organization under section 501(c)3 of the Internal Revenue Code.

Contributions are tax deductible to the full extent allowed by law. Tax-ID 23-774-9796, approved Apr. 27, 1998.

For more information, view our IRS letter of determination.)