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Overcoming a Fear of Separation Anxiety - Insincerity is the Witness Seen in this Delusion

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Submitted by M Tovey (United States), Jun 25, 2022 at 00:00

Following up an observation made six months ago, it is somewhat disconcerting to learn that your captivation by the alleged paramore is still causing issues of self worth; that if you are hoping that some change coming from a Muslim perpsective will be a witness of a certain willingness to accommodate any (if at all) any of your concerns, from all other perpsectives rather than your own, the witness is lacking any creditability.
In your own words, the suitor is looking fro that one argument that will eventually melt your own resolve to obtain happiness and accept the consequences of (as coined by others) accepting dhimmi status, thereby never achieving the trust and beginning of a love relationship that requires sacrifice of both partners, a situation that is admittedly never going to occur from that perspective - if it did, there would be a loss of face, something never allowed in that Muslim environment.
Going back to something once previously proffered; your worth cannot be determined by denyng yourself the value of a loving relationship; even in America, that does not make for a loving relationship unless both partners are commtied to common values, and that is not evidenced in what has been offered to you so far.
Separation is the only way your value can be evaluated without being subjected to the fear of being alone and not being led astray with promises not meant to be kept.

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