More than luck, sadly...

Submitted by Numina (Norway), Oct 27, 2020 at 16:14

First of all, if you're so happy, why are you looking for info within a blog that advice clearly against marrying Muslim men? Online relationships never can be for real as there's no real contact. Moreover... Muslim men do not use the Internet to choose their spouses because it is forbidden. Muslim men marry to have Muslim descendents. Muslim men never marry older than them women unless there's a benefit they can reap out. Khadija's example is something you should learn about. Love is not what leads a Muslim man and a woman to marriage but a business contract among families. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news for you.

Second, you're from UK. Haven't you seen in the news that Moroccan men risk their lives in "pateras" to arrive to the Spanish shore? This dire is their desperation that many die in the sea whilst others are sent back to their country after living a hell to get out. Also note that even the Moroccan who live in Spain since birth or childhood don't marry Spanish women. They date and have dozens of relationships but when it's time to get married, their families push them to their roots.

Third: if he hasn't asked you about money yet, it doesn't mean he won't. Some take even years until they get you totally involved so you can't say No. Others complain to make you feel pity and offer it to him. He will decline firstly to make you trust. But he will ask. Believe my words.

Please, study your man's culture and religion before it's too late and you end up with a broken heart, abused and trauma-bonded and maybe with a broke account.

A non Muslim woman will need more than luck to have a happy end with a Muslim man.

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