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He threatened me with my papers

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Submitted by N and S (Germany), Jun 12, 2020 at 05:43

Hi Lina. Im grown up in Vietnam and moved to Germany couple years ago. I am a tradional closed woman, which a one night stand love, love for physical contacts, triangle love..etc... bruised my ego. My exboyfriends dumbed me for another woman and now I was put in the position of a person who destroyed others family ( as he and she insisted)
And i can not explain and dont know with whom should I explain.
But i dont care much now. I tried to balance myself.

I have some difficulties in my paper at the beginning when I moved here but I slowly got everything, I applied for German Pass and my indentiy as well as my documents are processed now from Germany side. He knows it quite well.

When things broke down, he said I would never hurt him cause he knew how much I loved him. But i went against it. I agreed to send his wife the fotos ( she asked me) i texted his friends to ask about him( which I never did cause I trusted whatever he said) and I also warned him I would tell my story, i wouldnt keep my mouth shut. He said, he would take my words in the conversation to lawyer (???) Yes I said somw bad words when angry but no insulting like him/his wife. He will wait and see if I can get my German pass. And how can I deal with my life and my family after that!!!!
So he took the cop to deal with me. He said I disturbed him ( back to the story I came to his work to ask if there was a misunderstanding when she turned out his official wife long ago)and that I was one one of his ex ex ex ex co worker who followed him. he tooked it as a proof to her.
After 5 days, when I tried to call him again and hope we could talk. He took the phone and said, i was only someone for sex, and He regreted to let me have a chance to talk to him after that one night stand. I GOT crazily angry after that. I tried to call him 5 -6 times and once again, he came to police and said I disturbed him. He expected the cop will write some notice but they didnt.

I have to admit, i felt afraid after that. Of the way he acted and the insults of his wife. I am weak and i am alone here. I called women hotline everyday to find someone to listen. Even go to my lawyer to have an consult if anything bad couls happened

He tried to call me 2 days ago with his anonym number. I knew its him / his wife/ his wife family but I didnt take the phone. Dont know what else such men can do. Not only hate, i am afraid of him. He did all to make me stop telling my story. Cause we are not only couples, we were collegues and have a lot of German Co workers...


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