Replies to Mona

Submitted by Jessica (Canada), Sep 16, 2019 at 01:45

HI Mona

It's nice for you to write to me..well that would be alot to tell you..I'm here since 2014 and most women on here knows me and Mohamed. It would be our 5 years together now and we still so good talk to each other twice a day and video chat on whatsapp or viber..let me tell you .I'm 49 year old and he's 35 year old this year and he wants to marry me all the time but I say I marry you when I'm ready I have no rush at all I have 2 grown daughters one is 27 the other one is 21 still in university..why I rush to get marry..he asked me again tonight when are we going to get marry lol and I said you already know the answer...

All these years he never asked me for money I been to 3 times in morocco including this time but very short stays because I have to fly back to paris then back to Canada..I also went to Switzerland..I traveled everywhere my whole life most states in America and south America and some Asian countries like Thailand and Hong Kong and Korea. My next trip will be Greece maybe sometime next summer then to morocco again.

I know about mena men how they think and act because 1 I worked in a pharmacy my boss are egyptians..I worked for them over 9 years and they like me so much..after they sold the pharmacy also another egyptians bought it but my second Egyptians boss for not too long and sold the pharmacy again they are all coptic Christian..they hated muslim they say they are khara which means shit in Arabic lol..I know a lot of Arabic words I mean Egyptian Arabic not Moroccan arabic..now my new boss is egyptian muslim and he's the nicest guy you have ever work for who treated me so nice as an employee I still works with my old boss some other days he bought other pharmacies. .keep in mind all egyptians own pharmacy in here..Montreal are all Moroccan. .because that's the only province in Canada speaks French.

The first and second time I visited Mohamed he paid for my tickets I never spend money on love..I have money..I never been poor in my life and why would I spend money on men..when I was married to my ex husband he paid for me everything now he's still paid everything for my girls..so Mohamed know that from the beginning and he never wants me to pay for him anything..he always say to me real muslim men paid for the woman everything .

Women do not paid he say this to me all the time..if a man dont pay for a women is not real men..He's not poor either and not Rich. He had his own shop he's a technician..now it's summer he's so busy fixing air conditioning and washer dryer .fans etc. And he's family in France..I met his family few time and they helped him alot too.so he never expect me to give him money or buy him anything .while I was in morocco he bought me expensive gifts and for my girls also..I always say those that sit in the Internet Cafe all day and works in tourist attraction are mostly scammers..and I told him if you wants to look for another girl goes ahead but all these years he never did he say he only loves me..and I look young for my age most people and customers think I'm only 30 or 32..me and him look the sane age and alot of peopple think he look older than me..

I don't know but Asians are known for looking young..we don't have wrinkles I think it's because we don't like the sun..when mohaned met me in 2014 he thought I was 28 or 30 lol but I was 45. I know I been here for so many years and alot don't believe my relationship with him is good after all these years everytging is still good between us maybe because I'm not his wife yet..he know he can't use me for paper and visa and he's not looking for other girls..some women on here try to add him up on Facebook he don't even accept. He set it up on private so no one can add him..and hes only have 4 friends in his Facebook only me and his brother and sisters..he hates social media and never on..he use to have a Badoo account and someone in here tried to send him a friend request too but he hasn't use it over 10 years..he's so busy working and talking to me..so you could say he's my vacation lover we both have fun with each other.

And i have no rush to get marry I been there done that .I'm just enjoying life everyday and I just came back from Europe and morocco and last week I bought a new car . Love my new car. And I'm not going to take any shit from anyone he knows me better . I posted my Facebook address few time on here and most people had been here long enough knows what I look like and what Mohamed looks like..yes and some told me Maybe he's talking to other girls if he is would he be still around with me. And why other girls haven't responses him or marry him it's been 5 years and he's still with me and he's family likes me always wanted us to get married they just waiting for my answer .like I said in my previous post we are happy now why jinx it by marry him. The longer I hold on to him to see his personality and patience not like most women on here jumped on the chance to married them not knowing the person long enough..some only knew 3 months and get married it's like you married a total stranger doesn't really know the person at all. So that's why I hold on to him but I'm so sure he's not a scammer. If he is would he still with me all these years he would of married some other girl. Why wait 5 years.

Well Mona I hope I answer your questions. Without trust there won't be no love..mohaned always told me that solid relationship base on trust ..we trusted each other even 2 different continents can't seperate us apart.He's a jealous type also don't want me to talk to other men because he don't talk to other girl. He said I'm his and for him only..I don't mind flying there once a year to see him and have some fun and intimacy and I believe him when he said he's a Virgin and I believe him he doesn't have experience i have to lead him. Lol and while I was in morocco I don't have to pay for anything he does all the talking in the souk and bargaining he don't like me talking to men and I let him be the man he is in his country.

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