They are stalkers and respect is much for them than one can imagine

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 25, 2019 at 14:35

Sorry, I don't know what happened with the other post because I couldn't finished!

I'm sure mine hacked my phone. He has the nerve to say that he didn't care where I was going or whom I was going to see. But whenever he had the chance, he took my phone and check my followers in my accounts. He made me delete those photos he didn't consider appropriate, etc.

Yes, it's the same in Indian/Pak regions. Keeping their honour up is the national sport in there. That's why the bride is so important, because the bride has to honour her new hubby and his family. The bride cannot be any woman that they want. Mothers choose their wives! And this is something that every woman who comes here for advise needs to know. Not even just one year older, not divorced/separated/single mums, not having kids from another relationships, not even coming from divorced parents. Don't delude yourself. They can say whatever they want to get you! But their families will never NEVER allow them to marry you because you need to honour then. This simple. If they accept you, they all are in the business. If he hides you from them, now you know why. That's why chances are that you end up in a polygamous marriage, because given the time if he's still young he will do what his family tell him to do. And sadly other times, he's already married. It's always the same.

Respect is what a wife has to show all the time whenever she walks one step out from the house. One day, I spoke a little bit louder when talking about a very sensitive matter, and for him was a fight. I swear you I wasn't yelling at all. He was literally mad at me. He stopped talking to me and said it was the last time I disrespected him when we were out.

It's really scaring what you're talking about. I think that if Lou is dealing with such a dangerous man, leaving aside all our advises which she should implement, sheshould go to the police. They must be able to do something else to protect her.

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