Robin, you're welcome

Submitted by Keira (Australia), Aug 23, 2019 at 16:44

I do understand your fears. They are very pride and vindictive. Also the uncertainty that they come come back... Let me tell you that I am very proud of you for reporting him and not allowing him to achieve his goals by using you. Well done!!!

Robins I think all of us fear that they can hurt us someway. Physically or not. And we can protect us up to a point. It is true. But I think time heals and time is all we need to see that life goes on. I think that once they sense we are not of help for them anymore, they move on quickly to the next victim or to another strategie to get into our countries. If they feel that they still can make it through us, then time is nothing to them. But if we are not readily available for them anymore, I really think that they will move on and won't waste anytime on taking revenge. What for? They have plan how to make their dream come true. So relax and move on too.

In regards to your counsellor, don't wait further and change. As I told you in my previous post, not all are good at narcissism syndrome which is what these men suffer from. They are raised like little kings and once they're grown up, they think they can rule our world. The emotional damage that they cause us is very deep, so look for a professional who really knows how to support people who have been victims of these predators.

And keep coming here to unwind your pain and keep reading these stories because it really helps have a clearer mind and a positive thinking. We all can survive to this.

Chin up! We all have bad days but they don't last forever. And you know it! Take care, dear Robin!

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