Thanks Melanie

Submitted by Sheila, Nov 21, 2018 at 22:21

Hi Melanie, thanks for getting back to me so soon. I didn't get notification of the post back to me that you left. I'm glad you posted in this area of the forum. I think possibly what happen was if we comment on a post from a long time ago and remove the check from the box it gets put back with that post we commented on. I hope that makes sense lol. I'm very sorry for what you're going through with your Moroccan man. He most likely has other foreign women he is talking to and trying to run a scam on them. Melanie, I want to be sure I do say something due to what happen recently with someone else on the forum. I get really mad at these men for what they do with scamming so I may come off strong but I don't mean to. I get angry about what they do. It is your life but if I can help in any way then that's what I hope to be able to do. I really hope you won't do without food anymore because you sent him money that you couldn't afford to send. These men are horrible who scam foreign women. They do not care about you. A good man in these MENA countries would die before taking money from his woman. I know you mentioned posting on his Facebook about him if you don't hear from him. He will probably laugh behind your back. I say this because their friends they have, most of them are scammers and they already know what he's doing because they are doing the same thing. They will meet at the cafe for coffee and discuss BEZNESS! That's what it's called that they do. It's pulling their countries down and they either don't care. They will discuss and laugh about what they say to the women they are talking to. They compare western union receipts to see who received the most money. It's sickening!!! As far as exposing him to his other women he talks to on Facebook it won't expose him on the Facebook account you're on. He most likely has a Facebook account for every woman he is trying to scam. They may have for example 15 accounts. Fake accounts that is. I've always said Mark Zuckerburg needs to come up with a way to stop all these fake accounts. I heard they had removed 1 billion fake accounts on Facebook. I created a fake account once to help get information on my ex but he knew it was me because I was playing his game so it didn't work. Key in the word bezness into your browser just as I spelled it and watch what pops up. You'll see a site for Tunisian Love rats also. It's all of Middle East, North Africa countries who have these scammers. Something else you could do is lookup marriage fraud in the UK. Educate yourself on this as much as possible. Don't feel foolish because it's happen to many. All of us on here have been through it. Waiting on it to get better is a waste because it won't get better with a man like this. If it did improve it would only stay that way for a period of time or until he gets what he wants which usually citizenship ion your country. First world countries at that. The good ones don't bother looking for a foreign woman because they're not scammers and they usually follow tradition. Marry one of their own and younger than them so the women can bear many children. Many times it's a cousin and the marriages are always arranged by the parents. Especially the mother. A dowry is paid and not many can afford a dowry to pay the bride's Father. I know that pain you feel and If you will give it time it will get much better. They say all these sweet words and they know exactly what to say to you to win your heart. They get plenty of practice because there's other foreign women they are doing the same to so they can see who works out as the best candidate. I hope you will stay here and post as much as you need. Ask lots of questions. Do educate yourself by reading as much as you can on the internet about MENA men. I hope we talk soon and please take care Melanie. I hope I've been some help to you. Lots of hugs and love Melanie!! :-)

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