Hi Michele

Submitted by Deirdre (Canada), Oct 11, 2018 at 14:45

One of the hardest things we as women go through is having to choose between our heads and our hearts because our hearts are always stronger and they are so big. These mena men (or excuses for human beings) know how to use that to their advantage and work us.

They are like an addiction and a plague at the same time. It's like black magic or something.The withdrawal is the hardest part but once you overcome that part you can get through it. I am sorry to hear your story and I think that it's great that you were able to pull yourself away from him and start over. It will get easier, keep doing what you are doing and you'll be okay. Come here as much as you need to

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