Very pleasantly surprised.

Submitted by Bazoonga (Netherlands), Oct 6, 2018 at 20:07

Hello,my dear Sadie.

I was very pleased to receive your response. True,this is what most men prey upon and I know it because I am a man and know how many around me behaved.

It was uncouth and totally improper on his part to mention the Hollywood bimbos.You MUST rise above your diffidence.One has to rise oneself from what one creates in one's mind.Do not underestimate your strength.

Can a man bring a new life in this world? No.Only a woman can and that's your basic strength.You MUST realize the magnificent potential nature bestowed upon you and stand tall.We can't live without our mothers though we can without our fathers. What does that say about a woman?

Now forget what he is and was.Have you started working on my suggestions--such as approaching the authorities?It looks an exaggerated response but it's better they KNOW.They might issue a public warning.After all ,how many people read this blog? I came here quite by an accident after I saw many white women openly kissing and hugging obviously Muslim men from the Middle East.Many western women fly to Turkey and the Middle -east to have temporary relationships with these idiots.What fantasies and expectations do they have? How many western women are cohabiting with them for money---all from typical middle aged background--in Dubai and such places and tell back home that they are working in some private companies.Do you know this? I don't want to disgust you but I have seen life and so this is being told.

It's precisely because of this that they look upon you--not only for the citizenship--as easy women. Break this pattern in your life,at least.Let others ruin their bodies and souls.The temptations of body are very potent ,indeed.

You are a hundred times prettier compared with the Hollywood women,who us plastic surgeries and botox. At least,you are natural.NEVER LOSE YOURSELF. Rise above all this inferiority complex like a lotus rises above mud.

Sorry for being too direct but I feel for you and many such wonderful women like you who lose themselves for stupid men and friends.

Do you need any help with your parents? Are you still scared of admitting to them what an insignificant error of judgement you made? I am sure Mr.Pipes can help you since he is an authority here and in the U.S. I wish I could help you but I am thousands of miles away from you.They need to be told that your slight error should be forgotten.You don't need to tell them everything.

That's what I meant by seeking help from really genuine well wishers and neighbours if your parents aren't supportive. AND get in touch with the authorities for apprehension of harassment ,sucking you( and others) into not only abuse but also some underground drug cartel,human trafficking,spying etc.

It's not only yourself that you need to do this.

Best luck my dear.Do write if you do not like something I wrote or you need any further help. Above all---BE STRONG.YOU DESERVE EVERYTHING BEST OUT OF LIFE,DON'T DENIGRATE YOURSELF.

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