Be strong,easier said than done but you must break free.

Submitted by Bazoonga (Greece), Aug 27, 2018 at 11:43

Dear Michele, I know it's hard for you just as it's very easy for us all to advice you .

You are atypical affectionate woman who loves somebody unconditionally,forgives faults by millions and suffers in the bargain.I can go on and on but suffice it to say--as the situation demands,one must be softer than the flower( and this is not THAT situation) and tougher than the thunderbolt( THIS is what is required).

Do you want to go ahead ,get ensnared further and suffer so badly that you will be too numb to even repent.

You can do it.Just do it.Let me know what help do you need to toughen your resolve.Breathe with equal duration for inhalation and exhalation.This will calm you down.Do not accept any mail from either of these men,do not visit their Facebook or any other platform.It's the feeling of being in love and seeing yourself with him that is weakening you.Stay away from the computer if you can or visit websites of other interest/s you might have developed over the years.

Do you have any other family member who can support you and help you become positive and strong? Dependence of this type too is wrong but you might need it to break the shackles of this romantic involvement.Get your genuine well wishers to find you a loving husband--that's who you need.

Remember,it's always better to marry within the clan.Let alone the cheating,cultural differences are too difficult to negotiate and it will be worse if you marry one of these and wish to separate later.

Stay strong and break free.You won't need any of us.You have the light within you,just let it shine bright.Above all--don't wobble.

I want to see you truly happy and free to live your life the way you want.

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