Hi jackie

Submitted by Lynny (United Kingdom), Aug 7, 2018 at 10:32

Jackie thank you for replying to my post to you. I do know by way you talk you are now more aware of the culture and people etc but I'm afraid if you do go you will be more vulnerable enjoying the whole scenario being there and get sucked into something you can't get back out of.

My advice to you is to analyse this guy as much as you can, be aware of everything he says and does watch his actions. Keep yourself that bit distant don't become very attached. Try and keep your level sensible head on all the time. I know you need to go to truly know after meeting what You think of this guy, but they will tolerate so much to get what they need for much longer than you realise I'm talking years here.

Watch out for the little signs, it's hard when someone comes into our lives and our hearts to even think they would use or betray us, but unfortunately this is exactly what many of them do. They have one goal one focus to get free from the country they live as life is hard and to do this the best way is to pull the wool over our eyes. By the time we really believe and can't hide from ourselves any more that this is the case, we are consumed.

I'm glad your here to educate yourself from people who know what their talking about as you can prepare yourself best you can. Guard your heart cos you deserve better good luck

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