Confused and need advice

Submitted by Jackie (United States), Aug 6, 2018 at 14:44

Good afternoon Lynny,

Thank you for the kind words and information you provide. I am done with the Moroccon and he is very angry. I am determined to find the truth with the Algerian because I fear he has my soul and I need it back; I am so sure many of you understand the lies are so called "love bombs" and charm. I have much more information that I did even a week ago and question him regularly and asks if I work for the FBI?

Funny, there is no need because it is all black and white and I respect myself to find the truth; yet willing to risk my life to prove that I am right because of my pride.

I truly believe I will go and just stay in my hotel because he cannot stay with me as we are not married and have no proof that we are. I read today that he can say Talaaq three times and we are officially divorced!. OMG! I just cannot walk into this blindly and I deserve to be educated and explained everything that could be happening and he is not offering nor denying. He just states his mother is waiting for me and in another breath he says we are actually already married in our minds so its okay.

I am NOT going to get married to him when I arrive and I explained that to him repeatedly and apparently he can only ask me 3 times? Honestly, no offense to anyone's culture or religion, but I have never hard of such nonsense. There is a reason I have never married before now and quite frankly just want to travel and have some adventures before I die, but I am unclear how this has gotten so far. He is in theatre and obviously should just become a professional actor at this point because he wins and all it seems is I have to do is lose and nothing to gain except 10 years of me signing a contract with the United States Government stating I will take care of him whether he is with me or not! I did not work my entire life to have it taken away by a charmer. Culture shock is not the word! Mind blowing is more like how I feel.

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