Mena men

Submitted by Sherry (United States), Apr 10, 2018 at 13:44

RED FLAGS.."no friends", no "intro to family"?? They are smooooth operators..been groomed extensively for this. Goals - MONEY to buy a flat for future wife..MONEY to support immediate family..Career ..you will support him to obtain the career and it will be here on USA soil!! They will smooth talk to you giving them money. They will tell you "age doesn't matter"..They may really fall in love with you..but their definition of love is NOT our definition!! A whole different ballgame!! Yes, the economy is terrible there for wages..even with a good education. How much do you want to give to further their career and then they leave you for another woman? or marry another when they go home? They will suck you dry emotionally!! Up and down..on and off especially when it is LD relationship! If you entertain this and bring them here..my advise is to make it an altruistic relationship involving the courts to make this man pay you 1/2 of income for life..this will at least protect your financially. But there again, why waste the time? Find a man here in USA! It is hard..as most men have changed here in USA..with no focus on long-term relationship goals and working on it. It is exhausting. Best of luck..and really best to stop talking to him, stay busy..build your own life. Read the advise of all on here and TAKE HEED!!

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