Sixth Sense

Submitted by Sherry (United States), Jan 20, 2018 at 18:03

We have a gut feeling..flattery..they guys are pro's are romanticism smooth sweet talk..I suspected it from the beginning..I've really looked at the "FRUIT"..not the words. What are they doing with their hands..not words!! I am certain they learn this from a young youth..the whole family is involved..I suspect it..they will lie too to further the ambitions of their son. They want them to get a VISA ..especially in USA!!

They know they can come here..make lots of money and then spend it there!! The man I was with FELL IN LOVE with me..but he ruined it!! it is too late..he gave me the "lame" excuse..that he really didn't believe me that I would come and visit. Now he has changed (as verified by hacks)..yeah had to hack..but it is too late!! My feelings are GONE !!I care for him as a person, but the deceit and manipulation destroyed any possibility of a "trust" relationship. It was established early in the relationship and he LIED!!

Run from these snakes..I thank God for this post, a sixth sense and focusing on another goal to go there..to make it worthwhile if it wasn't true. It is sad for them that find out WE are the ones they really loved..and then they damage beyond repair!! I am not all the way healed, but getting there. Flattery and smooth sweet talk (all the time) is NOT normal!!! A man is a man!! Run from these!!..and by all means hire a hack..they will walk you right through all forms of social media!! Your eyes will be opened..but be prepared beforehand on what you will see and read!! My lands..early in the relationship he was telling me he quit all contact with others and was with me only..it only took one hack into IMO to see he was having live SEX with other women online!! I should have hacked earlier..it wasn't until later that I found this out. Another clue..if any man is into porn and you find out..RUN..read about what porn does to the brain of men ..especially young men..these are NOT husband material..there is recovery from this but they have to be willing and FAST for a long period of time before the brain resets itself. Most of these guys in Egypt are into porn - societal expectations of dowry and no contact push them to this..but he Islamic way teaches otherwise. If your man starts sending you subtle forms of PORN..along with all the other redflags..RUN..RUN..RUN..

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