What's the problem

Submitted by Candy Apple, Oct 23, 2017 at 20:32

Pretty Kitty, I'm gonna give it to you straight. You may not like my answer but here goes. You posted this same "problem" 7 months ago. I think you have problems in your relationship but not a"muslim man problem". You said that this woman is your husband friend's wife. Come on now, do you really think this other man wouldn't have picked up on something and stop coming around??. You have regular marriage problems. Your husband has gotten comfortable and takes you for granted. You've been married 10 years!!! Y'all need to spice it up. He feels comfy talking to his friends in his own language. As the algerians say, normal!! That's his way of staying connected to himself and his culture. Nothing wrong with that.. Take some classes to learn the language. Normally if he was a scammer, he wouldn't be with you this long. You are feeling jealous and neglected. Take some yoga classes, change your hair color, play music, stand up for yourself and if you feel unsafe, get out..
Best of luck to ya!!

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