Help : ( my Algerian hubby likes friends Moroccan wife...

Submitted by Pretty Kitty (United States), Sep 23, 2017 at 21:10

We've been married for 10 years now, not happy with how I've been treated. Cannot spend a dime, cannot speak freely in my own home for fear neighbors may hear me??? I'm blamed if ANYTHING goes wrong in our lives, if the car breaks down it's my fault. He also never ever repairs anything...and if I fix it, I'm doing manly things. Cannot even turn on the lights!! Of course I have no friends. But the icing on the cake his Moroccan friends wife cooks treats for my husband!!! and of course they speak their language in front of me, leaving me totally out of the conversations. When they visit, everything has to be perfect, and the air conditioner or heater is turned on. Other times No air or heat in my home! After they leave he gets really really angry with me as if he is mad she is not his. It's really weird and sad. I'm leaving soon, really scared too. Why do these North Africans set out to use us?? I just don't get it.

My question, is the Moroccan guys wife trying to take my hubby. My hubby tries to portray we are much richer than her husband. He's also a doctor in HIS country but is afraid to take ANY type of med exam here in U.S.?? even to become a nurse...things arent' adding up. Can someone fill me in so I have more courage to leave?

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