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Submitted by Chelsea, Sep 8, 2017 at 01:06

Because so many men and women have been abandoned once the green card comes through....I read on an immigration attorney's website that some changes were being implimented concerning a large gap in age.

From what I understand ...anything over a 12 year difference is probably going to be very hard in proving that this is a bona-fide good faith marriage.

Unless you want to live in Pakistan. Of course he may be able to come here on his own. But then too you still would have to petition USCIS for him and be interviewed.

My Pakistani friend is beautiful and very young. We are friends only. I do believe that the younger Pakistani men not all but some are very nice and caring and really want the best for their country. I know the educated ones are trying very much for peace in their country. This Pakistani man got his paper on the culture published on a US website. He holds a PHD. I don't wish any bad to come to their country for their sufferings are intense.

What his intentions are with you are known only to God and him.

But please be very careful. The world is a different place than before.

On a personal note. I would not want to marry younger for as we age... We get tired and nothing wrong with that. But to take on someone 20 years younger would to me be like having another child to raise.

At any rate... I wish you well and hope you make a wise choice for yourself

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