Great Comment as Always, Lina

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Aug 22, 2017 at 12:05

Thanks for sharing Lina!

The only thing I would say about intentions: people make relationship decisions all of the time without reading someone's mind. Only God can judge, but we can make reasonable discernments. A woman who is 35-70 who wants to marry a man from a Third World country who started to talking to her on Facebook and has never met and needs us to tell her "it's okay, it'll be fine" is clearly asking for trouble----which is one reason why most people don't do this. It's rife with scandal. And that's even BEFORE we even start talking about legitimate cultural differences.

What I see on here are not reasonable discernments----at least not to start out. Most of the women posting on here at least think they are telling the truth and are polite about it, but a good, valid marriage requires so much.

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