Double lives

Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Aug 5, 2017 at 21:13

This is very true. Ladies, the double lives these men lead is something else. They could even put Spiderman to shame! My Kurdish ex used to give me long lectures about cheating and faith, and yet I recently discovered... that he was in fact seeing and planning to marry another girl behind my back. He was planning to propose to this young lady all the while trying to hook up with me.

So be careful gals, you never know. These people grow up leading double lives due to the "shame" factor, so lying and cheating is something they become accustomed to. Especially when they find out we're infidels and therefore worthless lol. Oftentimes the signs are there all along, but as women we tend to ignore them and tolerate more than we should. Even more so when we have the tolerant, open-minded nature that many women on this board have. Why? Because as females we're encouraged to be patient and nurturing; to tie the knot before we're officially over the hill and accept whatever offal comes our way. But remember you can do better, and even if you don't find the one it's honestly not the end of the world. Treat yourself, travel the world, make money, start a business... and who knows you might one day meet someone that genuinely loves and respects what you're about.

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