Thanks

Submitted by Aussiegirl (United States), Jul 2, 2017 at 23:51

Thanks Sherry, I never wanted to find an overseas or African man, so this has all been a bit of a awakening for me...

I know where he works, he hasn't lived in his country since he was 17.. There has been no sick family members yet, I just got the wifi one though ha!! He lives in a house with his manager and his manager left and it was his wifi, so his only internet access is at work, which pretty much matches up to his online presence.

He doesn't try to manipulate me and he doesn't get jealous over me talking to other men, he didn't even want to come to Australia initially, because he hates flying, but I said it's going no where and I am over it, so he said he will come over for a week that is all he can get off work.

If I crack it at him, he capitulates but that's not very attractive in a man either, he knows I won't be putting up with his magic carpet crap. He doesn't' want a AUS visa, he has a UK and EU one and said would only relocate here until I sold my company. There is just 1 year age difference between us, he only sent dick pics twice, I told him to not be so disrespectful.

The religion he knows I do not want to know about and if we were to marry and have kids my kids will have normal names and a hyphen surname and I would engage an international lawyer to be sure that the kids if we separate are to come with me.

I have asked him on many occasions what's the point of praying if you keep sinning week in week out, but he says it's for his family... I said so you live a lie to your family, makes no sense to me.

I will never convert to any religion, no religion makes sense to me.

I don't understand if they can find woman so easily why continue the charade, I mean I live 28hrs away, he gets nothing from me other than a 1 time visit, yet he calls daily...

I think you hit the nail on the head, if I am googling scams and forums then it's an impossible situation full of doubt.

I'll let him know I'm out and see what palava he follows up with!!

.Thanks for the honest advice

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