Aussiegirl

Submitted by Siobhan (United States), Jun 29, 2017 at 01:55

Please follow your gut instincts. This guy is playing and taking you for a fool. I would not believe one word of anything he says because that's their nature and he has already lied to you many times.

I fear if you keep up this farce with him, you'll become too emotionally involved and he will use all the tricks to share those assets you mentioned. They have left many women in bankruptcy, some of which I personally know and some I met here but we correspond elsewhere. The women are in pain and are having a difficult time forgiving themselves for ignoring the "user" signs. I see the same pattern with your situation. If he hasn't asked for money yet, it will come, I promise. No good will come of this and the statistics are there to prove it. Please consider finding a man from your own ilk.

I will wager a bet that he is still married and not divorced.
By the way, they sleep a lot because they are busy trying to keep up with the many western women they have dangling on social media. Yours sounds like he also has to wait for opportunities when his wife is not around...that could explain the sporadic phone calls.

I know this sounds like a harsh response but Aussiegirl, I only wish you well and I would absolutely hate to see another Mena man taking one of us for a ride. They are no good and you know it...that's why you took the time to tell your story here. Lose the rat a.s.a.p.

PS: Ladies, if these men send you pictures of their penises, it means they want sex, not a wife. They would not do that to their women nor any woman they really want. It still amazes me how fast they whip that thing out because it's their bait for western women.

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