Younger Egyptian man and older American woman

Submitted by Sherry, Jun 27, 2017 at 08:04

Hello,

If he wants to come to the US let him do it on his own. He most likely won't get approved for a tourist visa because much is required of them. Please read up on it. The age difference is very huge. How many American men do you know asking women 25 years older than them to marry them? Why would it be any different with one of these men unless they get a dream they have which is to leave their country and come to live in one that can offer a better life. Once they don't need you anyone they will leave you and possibly bring a girl from their country over.

You're beyond child bearing years and this is not normal for them because they are suppose to marry younger and have many children. I'm not insulting you so please don't take this the wrong way. My advice to you is to let him go no matter what you feel for him. You have a huge age difference , no hope for children together, different beliefs due to culture. All of this are big issues that can cause a marriage to destruct. Besides the point of spending thousands of dollars to get him to your country and being responsible for him with everything possibly up to 10 years.

Believe me if you move on without him you will be very happy you did because he can become your biggest nightmare.

Good luck to you in your decision and we're here to answer questions for you.

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