in love with the wrong guy

Submitted by cynthia (United States), May 20, 2017 at 13:19

your story with your friend sounds familiar to me, I got involved with a young turkish guy, he is 25, turning this month 26,and I am 50 just turned 51 . He is in US now as a student , He courted me, and he was showing his affection to me, giving me flowers , simple gift, I was so flattered by his attention, and I fell in love with him, although at first I was laughing of the situation, he was reassuring me that it doesn't matter to him, what matters is I am a woman, then he became cold, and doesn't call me, and doesn't want even to see me, then when I spoke to him he said , he was just busy and depressed,

he told me that he wants to marry me so that he can get a green card. I told him I am a christian and the bible says I have to marry only a christian, besides I told him, a couple should love each other if they want to marry, no other reason. i told him to look for someone else, probably he is looking for someone, and I was suspecting he has a girlfriend already because every weekend he disappear from friday , saturday , sunday starting at 8 pm, he always tell me 'i am with friends.'

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