Anonymous (United States)

Submitted by Zaina (South Africa), May 20, 2017 at 11:21

Hi

I wonder if you're not talking to my scammer . Your story sounds so similar to the woman my scamming husband is talking to. I feel so paranoid, I m afraid to discuss details here.

if a man loves you, he wont be verbally abusive to you. You are not married to him, you have more than a fighting chance. . If he is abusive before marriage, guess whats he's going to be like after. He has started with the abuse and secrets(-hiding your child), is he ashamed of you?

Think with your head, it maybe hard but its the smart thing to do. This is a red flag. Listen to your gut instinct.

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