Amber,thank you so much for sharing your story

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), May 5, 2017 at 17:50

Hello Amber
Thank you fro such extended story.I feel sorry for the time you wasted with such loser!
He is so LOW that the only thing that makes him to feel better is to bring someone down!
I had experienced tha kind of treatment myself and felt so depressed because of the havock of chaos that person created in my head,making me first to beleve that he has serious intentions and sincere in his feelings to me,that it was hard to nbelieve otherwise.
But he was tired of "walkingon tippy toes" all the time and eventually the mask felloff.
A vicious cycle of sweet talk lies alternating with silent treatment,the begging me to come back drove me crazy ,until I decided to cut the crap and blocked hm/igored him everywhere I can.
we are much more better than those Losers in many ways and deserved someone who will respect and treat us with love and compassion.
Those threads that you described are clearly point out his Narcissistic Personality Disorder.He is typical user who needs a crowd to boost his ego,and has no feelings for anyone but himself.He will get his supply of whatever he needs from you ,and will move on with no regrets onto another victim.And it will go on.He will not change,as he will not be able to see that the only problem is HIm ,himself and he needs to go to therapy in order to change.There are a lot of articles on Quora about NPD.

Cross him off your life and do not look back.You do not need such creature that I can not even call "man",who is not ashamed to ask for money from woman-what a disgrace!

This is not love-it is a manipulation.

Stay strong!
Good thing that you can clearly see him for who he is,as it is sometimes hard when you have this so-called "love haze" .

Hugs
Lana

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