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Nightmare Surfer Soufian from Agadir Morocco

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Submitted by Amber, May 2, 2017 at 02:28

Hello, everyone! I wanted to share more of my experience with everyone here.

Please keep in mind that this is just MY experience, and I realize not all are the same, just another that happens to unfortunately match up to the stereotypes. I met this young man about a year ago online and we instantly hit it off. There was a sweetness and a sincerity in the things he would say that made me want to get to know him more and more. My very first instinct, which I regret not following, was to ignore his initial messages and not take them seriously because he was over 6,000 miles away. He kept messaging, for an entire month, like he just had to get to know me better. I gave in and talked to him and things got really serious really fast.

Not even 3 months into talking, I was on a plane to see him for the first time. We were so in love and had to see each other. The fighting started before I even went to see him the first time. He would make rude comments about my body, and that really upset me. I am a curvy girl, but in a way I think a lot of people usually appreciate. I had a little bit of a belly at the time, but wasn't soooo big. He told me I needed to be more active and healthy and exercise more and eat better. He kept pushing me to go to the gym and asking me how much I weighed, things like that which were really annoying to me. He told me he loved my curves before that. He just didn't make a lot of sense, but that continues later.

I went to see him the first time and I saw that he still had some active dating profiles and was still having inappropriate communications with other women on Facebook. He told me a bunch of lies and tried to manipulate me into thinking I was crazy and everything was my fault, a common theme here, it would seem. He wanted to work things out, so I told him to get rid of the accounts. He hesitated to delete them, but after a little more persisting, it finally happened.

There was a point during that trip where we had a fight following what happened with the dating stuff, and we didn't say a word to each other for 3 days, after which he tried to manipulate me into apologizing by saying he was going to leave for the remaining week and leave me with his family, who barely spoke any English, while he went and did what he wanted with his friends. I was terrified by the thought of that, so I made nice for that time and for the rest of the trip, but I was really shocked at how he played that card.

I went home after that and planned to return last December for my Winter Break. The fights continued, and his comments about my appearance and sometimes even my character continued. I swear, this was the MOST fighting I have ever had with someone I have dated in my life, and it is exhausting and unnecessary. One night after I finished an exam for school, he thought it was cute and funny to call me a fat ass. I got up from my class because I couldn't help the giant tears that came from my face reading that. Of course that sparked another fight, because who wants to be treated that way? We had a long discussion after that, and he agreed to stop with those comments, although he still tried to say a lot of the same things more tactfully after that.

I was really nice and helped him build a website for a business he was interested in promoting, and paid the fees because he asked me to help out a little, and that wasn't a problem for me. He treated me like an employee and was constantly bossing me around and making me make one change after another to perfect things his way, which was far from the fun project I hoped we could do together. I noticed that he seemed to have less interest in playing with me on webcam, as we had done at least once a week before my first visit, and the enjoyment seemed mutual. Something he seemed to really want a lot before, suddenly coming to a screeching halt. I began to wonder if he wasn't satisfying himself in other ways, so I looked up an old username from when we talked before.

The search returned results from different adult sites, many of which were webcam communities, and one said that he had broadcasted very recently. This was, of course, on a night that he told me he was really tired and needed to sleep soon. I confronted him about it, with the concern that he was camming with other people and completely neglecting me. He told me he was just on there testing his camera. He tells the dumbest lies known to man, but there is so much more! He promised he would make things right and we should 'focus on our love and just forget,' about all of the bad things he was doing.

Finally, I made it back to visit again in December. I brought some very nice and thoughtful gifts for him and the family just out of the kindness of my heart. His family had been very warm and welcoming during the first visit, so I offered to bring them something. I bought him two different wetsuits and some other spear fishing equipment, which he was supposed to just hold onto the money for our adventures since he couldn't send what he had through their Western Union. I helped, but I don't think he put as much money aside as he said he was going to. We seemed to almost always be doing things that were either very cheap, or free. I think he was keeping as much of the money for himself as he could, because it didn't add up, and there should have been a bit left over. I didn't make a big deal since I was a guest and they took me in.

During this second trip, I noticed he had been signing into a couple of fake Facebook accounts. I decided to check them out, and both had correspondence of the inappropriate nature with women from all over the world, of course. The conversations made it obvious he was meeting these women from the webcam sites and trying to get them to play with him when he said he was going to sleep. He had been talking to these women the entire time we had been together. He even told some of them to come visit him in Morocco. I guess they were a little smarter than me.

I felt really humiliated at that point and tried to leave, but the family stepped in and asked me to stay. I don't think they really understood too much, and of course he lied to them to make it look like I was just upset for no reason. Later he apologized for all of that and agreed to delete the fake accounts he was using. Not too reassuring when you know he can just make another one in minutes. I don't think the trust was ever the same after that point. I just felt awful the rest of that trip. At one point, I was literally sick one day and he basically said I was just lazy and didn't feel like doing anything. I really didn't feel like explaining myself to a complete idiot that day, so I let him leave me there and go surf with his friends. I hung in there for the rest of that trip, also, and it seemed like almost all of the things we did centered around what he wanted to do.

He didn't take the things I wanted or needed into consideration too much. I think there was ONE day we actually spent the whole day together without any friends or family or surfing. I had bought a camera for that trip as well, and I spent about 1/3 of the time I was there filming him at his request, which made me feel like he was being a little selfish with the time I had left. I was only there for 3 weeks. After I left to go home, it seemed like he suddenly missed me more and wanted to try to work on things.

We were to meet in Bali next, in June. I was a little nervous and unsure about him being responsible enough to handle paying his own way. He did end up asking me to pay for his whole ticket, and when I told him I wasn't going to have the money for two tickets at once, he told me he should just go alone if I can't help him. That felt pretty awful after all of the other sweet things I had done. I stopped talking to him again at that point, but I continued to make excuses for him. He was just younger and stupid and maybe his culture encourages certain behaviors. It still didn't make it any more fun for me.

I also found out that he had gone back to the fake Facebook accounts he told me he deleted because he 'needed something from them.' I'm sure that was exactly it, but he promised to make them gone after that, and they were deleted soon after. We kept going and fighting again and again because he kept making choices that were bad for our relationship. The biggest thing that was bothering me were the comments he would make about my appearance. I think he said things more to try to break my spirit so I wouldn't feel good about myself, because he was always putting himself up very high and thought he was better than me. He had some cute Facebook pics, but in person it wasn't quite the same. Still not BAD, but you know what I mean.

He had an inflated ego based on the attention he got as an Instagram surfer, that kind of thing. He really seemed to need a lot of attention from social media. A LOT. I think he had some problems with his own self-confidence and wanted me to feel like I was beneath him to control me more. Too bad for him, I wasn't having it anymore. I came to the realization that I was a lot happier with myself and the way I looked before he came along, and the only way I could feel good about myself again is to get rid of the one person who made me feel like there was ever anything wrong with me. HIM. I tried to approach him nicely and tell him how he has made me feel about myself, and he just started blaming me for everything again. It was my choice to feel the way that I do, and I could just choose to be happy instead.

It was my fault for starting all of our fights and just being so sick and so crazy. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore, because I was tired of being treated that way, and he started attacking my character and appearance again. He reminded me again that I was not the only girl in this world. I told him he was welcome to go find someone he was actually happy with, since he seemed to have such a big problem with me. We didn't talk for 5 days after that, and when we did, I told him my decision to end our relationship was final. He went on to create several different fake Facebook accounts to harass me with over the past couple of days. As soon as I would block one, he created a new one that wasn't blocked.

He says the same things every time. He was soooo sorry and he loves me so much and he will make everything better if I just give him one more chance, but then nothing changes. Typical pattern of abuse. Speaking of which, I found a checklist that mental health professionals use for victims of psychological abuse by their partners, and the ONLY things I could not check off and rate at the highest degree of frequency were because we did not have children together. I have hesitated on the ideas of children and marriage. He seemed to want to rush both, but we had agreed to wait until I finished school for children to be a possibility, which was two more years. For the marriage, he kept insisting we hurry on that since the paperwork could take a while and he just wanted to come see me so bad. He did nothing to help me financially with anything during this whole process.

None of the trips or the paperwork he wanted me to submit for the fiance visa (still haven't, and definitely not happening now). He claimed he worked and made some money helping with a small family business attached to their house, which may have been true, but he never said anything about it or mentioned it until I started getting curious about what he was doing, other than surfing, and why I seemed to be expected to handle so much financially. He never seemed to have anything to show from that, and certainly never helped me with anything at all, if he did.

At one point, he told me he had a former girlfriend who died in an accident to make me feel bad and talk to him when we were fighting. These men will literally say anything to make you come back to their madness. I asked him when he first told me about it what the girl's name was, and he told me. Later I would ask him that again because my better instincts were telling me I still can't trust him, and of course the second time, he forgot he had already been asked the same question and gave me a completely different name. He also stated before that when I asked that nobody in his circle of family or friends could verify this girl ever existed.

I told him he was a terrible person who can't seem to stop telling so many lies, and have since deleted my Facebook and Instagram accounts, because that was the only way I could keep him from contacting me in those places. I have also had to block his phone number so he can't call or text me. IIt is REALLY going to take NO CONTACT with this person to rid him from my life, but it needs to happen. I came into this situation with an open mind and open heart, not wanting to believe any of the negative stereotypes I have learned. Unfortunately, HE made all of those things true all by himself. I'm sure things would only get worse if I stayed.

My advice to anyone who is contacted by these men is to stop everything before it starts. Ignore them, block them, whatever you have to do. Just keep them away from you because they will promise you love and happiness and break you down instead.

Sorry that was long. There is more if anyone has any questions. Time to take care of MYSELF again!


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5Warning to all. [104 words]BazoongaSep 20, 2018 00:59244927
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9Beware of jaafr sadeq [160 words]AnnaSep 21, 2018 19:35244927
5Beware of jaafr sadeq [22 words]AnnaSep 21, 2018 19:54244927
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3Anna [47 words]JessicaSep 21, 2018 21:56244927
8Thank you Chelsea and all [60 words]AnnaSep 23, 2018 08:34244927
5Wrong anna [52 words]AnnaSep 24, 2018 13:47244927
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5No not his friend Anna [97 words]Jessica (canada)Sep 27, 2018 20:05244927
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10Jaafr sedeq [62 words]CANDY APPLESep 30, 2018 12:06244927
1Hello Candy Apple [241 words]jessica (canada)Oct 6, 2018 14:40244927
2Be weary [21 words]SheilaOct 9, 2018 10:43244927
4I think the same too [61 words]Jessica (canada)Oct 10, 2018 00:35244927
1That's what people do Jessica [54 words]SheilaOct 10, 2018 17:23244927
3Hi Sheila [133 words]JessicaOct 12, 2018 02:27244927
3Fake profile [48 words]jessica (canada)Oct 12, 2018 17:24244927
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7Sheila,you cracked me up [211 words]Lana(USA)Sep 24, 2018 16:23244926
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4Very glad to hear that. [187 words]BazoongaSep 24, 2018 20:16244926
6Reply to Lana [136 words]SheilaSep 25, 2018 17:41244926
8Reply to Chelsea [328 words]SheilaSep 25, 2018 17:57244926
5Reply to Bazoonga [362 words]SheikaSep 25, 2018 18:14244926
1Thanks,Sheika for reaching out. [38 words]BazoongaSep 26, 2018 17:47244926
5Thanks Sheila - so glad you are back too and blessings [215 words]ChelseaSep 26, 2018 21:19244926
5THIS FAMOUS STORY WAS TAKING PLACE IN KINGSTON ONTARIO [554 words]Jessica (canada)Sep 26, 2018 22:31244926
5Reply to Jessica [70 words]SheilaSep 27, 2018 15:32244926
2So right Chelsea [118 words]SheilaSep 27, 2018 15:41244926
7I Hope you are well lorna [303 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 01:41244926
7So glad to hear from you Lorna! [278 words]SheilaOct 1, 2018 15:29244926
2I hope you are well lorna [50 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 18:16244926
3I'm Lorna [50 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 18:17244926
4Thanks Sheila so glad you made the comments you did [123 words]LornaOct 1, 2018 19:40244926
7Hope you are well Lorna [121 words]Sabrina (Australia)Oct 2, 2018 02:51244926
9LORNA [68 words]CANDY APPLEOct 2, 2018 10:16244926
7Dear Lorna, drop this crook, and do not look back!!! [585 words]LANA(USA)Oct 2, 2018 15:58244926
8Hello Lorna [115 words]SiobhanOct 2, 2018 16:28244926
5Please don't say that Lorna [93 words]SheilaOct 2, 2018 18:34244926
13In reading Lana, Candy Apple, and Siobhan posts to you Lorna [304 words]SheilaOct 2, 2018 18:56244926
9LANA :) [75 words]SiobhanOct 3, 2018 15:23244926
8Siobhan and Sheila [343 words]Lana(USA)Oct 3, 2018 19:22244926
7Hey...you sure gave us a scare. We got you. [115 words]ChelseaOct 3, 2018 21:29244926
7Was thinking the same thing Lorna [206 words]ChelseaOct 3, 2018 21:45244926
5So true Siobhan [184 words]CANDY APPLEOct 4, 2018 17:33244926
8Absolutely Sheila [84 words]CANDY APPLEOct 4, 2018 17:44244926
4Awesome Lana! [67 words]SheilaOct 4, 2018 21:28244926
6Reply to Candy Apple [148 words]SheilaOct 4, 2018 21:38244926
17IMAGINE [41 words]CarlottaSep 15, 2018 18:36244878
6How very true. [38 words]BazoongaSep 18, 2018 04:44244878
3Bravo to this comment [7 words]ChelseaSep 18, 2018 18:04244878
24I don't mean to sound like I'm dismissing anyone's feelings! [641 words]SheilaSep 5, 2018 19:48244707
3Bravo [81 words]BazoongaSep 7, 2018 01:18244707
5I left out a part I should have mentioned Bazoonga [64 words]SheilaSep 7, 2018 14:53244707
3Thanks for the response and explanation. [29 words]BazoongaSep 7, 2018 18:28244707
13I hope this post doesn't offend anyone! [54 words]SheilaSep 5, 2018 17:03244695
13In part,I think,yes [326 words]LANA(USA)Sep 5, 2018 17:32244695
10Splenda love [128 words]LinaSep 5, 2018 17:48244695
6I hope this post doesn't offend anyone [119 words]LornaSep 5, 2018 17:55244695
6Time spent [173 words]FreebirdSep 5, 2018 18:44244695
8YOU ARE NOT ALONE LORNA [1362 words]Jessica (canada)Sep 6, 2018 05:29244695
6They can spend to but only to use u! [682 words]GandaSep 17, 2018 10:32244695
1What medication is this? [78 words]BazoongaSep 22, 2018 20:28244695
7sad story.. [156 words]JudzSep 5, 2018 08:37244681
5Judy,he is typical scammer!!! [67 words]LANA(USA)Sep 5, 2018 17:40244681
7Hello Judz [331 words]SheilaSep 5, 2018 20:10244681
1Sorry if I got your name wrong [24 words]SheilaSep 5, 2018 20:12244681
2Scammer [66 words]JudzSep 6, 2018 02:01244681
4Nothing sad [168 words]BazoongaSep 6, 2018 05:17244681
9I hate to say it Judz... [142 words]DeirdreSep 6, 2018 15:27244681
7Players [78 words]JessicaSep 6, 2018 21:46244681
Name misspelled [19 words]Lana(USA)Sep 6, 2018 21:56244681
8Benefit of a doubt [183 words]Lana(USA)Sep 6, 2018 22:07244681
7Yes any man can be a player but [359 words]SheilaSep 7, 2018 15:25244681
9HOrrible [46 words]jessica (canada)Sep 7, 2018 16:17244681
5Why They Do It [15 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiSep 7, 2018 21:12244681
11Young women get scammed too. [218 words]Sabrina (Australia)Aug 29, 2018 21:58244477
6You're right Sabrina [130 words]SheilaAug 30, 2018 17:22244477
6Thanks for sharing this story Sabrina [118 words]SheilaAug 30, 2018 17:33244477
8Romantic Youngsters [317 words]BazoongaAug 30, 2018 19:42244477
11Targets [112 words]LinaAug 31, 2018 21:15244477
10To Sheila and Bazoonga [189 words]Sabrina (Australia)Sep 1, 2018 04:50244477
My Kurdish man [20 words]LornaSep 3, 2018 19:15244477
5Thanks for your response. [258 words]BazoongaSep 3, 2018 19:28244477
5Hi Sabrina [28 words]SheilaSep 3, 2018 20:34244477
6This is what I wanted to read. [140 words]BazoongaSep 4, 2018 11:10244477
11Hi and interesting fact. [196 words]BazoongaSep 4, 2018 20:46244477
2Random Question [20 words]DeirdreAug 27, 2018 14:30244439
8Hello and a simple answer. [213 words]BazoongaAug 27, 2018 19:56244439
Yes [12 words]AnswerAug 28, 2018 04:13244439
16Thank you Bazoonga [333 words]DeirdreAug 28, 2018 14:41244439
6Bezness [133 words]SheilaAug 29, 2018 14:54244439
7Fantastic [84 words]BazoongaAug 29, 2018 20:23244439
5Yes Mohamed [78 words]JessicaAug 30, 2018 00:05244439
4I'm the same ..fell in love but now he wants a passport [74 words]LornaAug 31, 2018 02:19244439
2Sheila can you help me [222 words]LornaAug 31, 2018 05:27244439
6I will keep that in mind Sheila [72 words]DeirdreAug 31, 2018 12:50244439
5Hi Jessica [44 words]DeirdreAug 31, 2018 13:01244439
6I appreciate that [24 words]DeirdreAug 31, 2018 13:06244439
10Don't be another woman duped lorna [173 words]LynnyAug 31, 2018 13:39244439
2Duped [61 words]LornaAug 31, 2018 15:03244439
9He is lying. Dump him and move on. [97 words]ChelseaAug 31, 2018 15:15244439
11They make sick to my stomach too [262 words]ChelseaAug 31, 2018 15:37244439
7Lorna don't feel stupid feel proud [139 words]LynnyAug 31, 2018 16:42244439
14More thoughts Lorna [642 words]SheilaAug 31, 2018 17:26244439
14Listen up [331 words]LynnyAug 31, 2018 18:06244439
7Don't get involved [106 words]LinaAug 31, 2018 21:06244439
7Duped [153 words]LornaSep 1, 2018 05:15244439
5Duped [135 words]LornaSep 1, 2018 05:25244439
5Lorna and kurdish man [221 words]Sabrina (Australia)Sep 1, 2018 05:48244439
1Great ! [7 words]LynnySep 1, 2018 06:05244439
5Report him [109 words]LynnySep 1, 2018 07:01244439
6Hello [62 words]LornaSep 1, 2018 08:02244439
11Dear Lynny and Lorna [366 words]SiobhanSep 1, 2018 21:09244439
8Hi Deirdre [60 words]SiobhanSep 1, 2018 21:18244439
6Duped [98 words]Sabrina (Australia)Sep 3, 2018 07:19244439
7Sabrina [77 words]LornaSep 3, 2018 15:55244439
5Thanx Siobhan [127 words]LynnySep 3, 2018 19:42244439
4Lorna keep hating him [22 words]LynnySep 3, 2018 19:47244439
7This too shall pass [125 words]SheilaSep 3, 2018 20:26244439
5Hi Lynny [68 words]SheilaSep 3, 2018 20:30244439
12To all of you,who got hurt. [1324 words]Lana(USA)Sep 3, 2018 21:40244439
7I couldn't say it better,Chelsea! [46 words]LANA (USA)Sep 3, 2018 21:59244439
9Dear Lorna [149 words]Lana(USA)Sep 3, 2018 22:15244439
10Please don't feel ashamed [151 words]Sabrina (Australia)Sep 3, 2018 22:22244439
1Sheila I can't do this anymore ..please show them this don't let anyone else die [236 words]LornaSep 4, 2018 04:14244439
4Hi Siobhan [38 words]DeirdreSep 4, 2018 09:46244439
9He is the one who should be ashamed [391 words]ChelseaSep 4, 2018 10:03244439

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