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Nightmare Surfer Soufian from Agadir Morocco

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Submitted by Amber, May 2, 2017 at 02:28

Hello, everyone! I wanted to share more of my experience with everyone here.

Please keep in mind that this is just MY experience, and I realize not all are the same, just another that happens to unfortunately match up to the stereotypes. I met this young man about a year ago online and we instantly hit it off. There was a sweetness and a sincerity in the things he would say that made me want to get to know him more and more. My very first instinct, which I regret not following, was to ignore his initial messages and not take them seriously because he was over 6,000 miles away. He kept messaging, for an entire month, like he just had to get to know me better. I gave in and talked to him and things got really serious really fast.

Not even 3 months into talking, I was on a plane to see him for the first time. We were so in love and had to see each other. The fighting started before I even went to see him the first time. He would make rude comments about my body, and that really upset me. I am a curvy girl, but in a way I think a lot of people usually appreciate. I had a little bit of a belly at the time, but wasn't soooo big. He told me I needed to be more active and healthy and exercise more and eat better. He kept pushing me to go to the gym and asking me how much I weighed, things like that which were really annoying to me. He told me he loved my curves before that. He just didn't make a lot of sense, but that continues later.

I went to see him the first time and I saw that he still had some active dating profiles and was still having inappropriate communications with other women on Facebook. He told me a bunch of lies and tried to manipulate me into thinking I was crazy and everything was my fault, a common theme here, it would seem. He wanted to work things out, so I told him to get rid of the accounts. He hesitated to delete them, but after a little more persisting, it finally happened.

There was a point during that trip where we had a fight following what happened with the dating stuff, and we didn't say a word to each other for 3 days, after which he tried to manipulate me into apologizing by saying he was going to leave for the remaining week and leave me with his family, who barely spoke any English, while he went and did what he wanted with his friends. I was terrified by the thought of that, so I made nice for that time and for the rest of the trip, but I was really shocked at how he played that card.

I went home after that and planned to return last December for my Winter Break. The fights continued, and his comments about my appearance and sometimes even my character continued. I swear, this was the MOST fighting I have ever had with someone I have dated in my life, and it is exhausting and unnecessary. One night after I finished an exam for school, he thought it was cute and funny to call me a fat ass. I got up from my class because I couldn't help the giant tears that came from my face reading that. Of course that sparked another fight, because who wants to be treated that way? We had a long discussion after that, and he agreed to stop with those comments, although he still tried to say a lot of the same things more tactfully after that.

I was really nice and helped him build a website for a business he was interested in promoting, and paid the fees because he asked me to help out a little, and that wasn't a problem for me. He treated me like an employee and was constantly bossing me around and making me make one change after another to perfect things his way, which was far from the fun project I hoped we could do together. I noticed that he seemed to have less interest in playing with me on webcam, as we had done at least once a week before my first visit, and the enjoyment seemed mutual. Something he seemed to really want a lot before, suddenly coming to a screeching halt. I began to wonder if he wasn't satisfying himself in other ways, so I looked up an old username from when we talked before.

The search returned results from different adult sites, many of which were webcam communities, and one said that he had broadcasted very recently. This was, of course, on a night that he told me he was really tired and needed to sleep soon. I confronted him about it, with the concern that he was camming with other people and completely neglecting me. He told me he was just on there testing his camera. He tells the dumbest lies known to man, but there is so much more! He promised he would make things right and we should 'focus on our love and just forget,' about all of the bad things he was doing.

Finally, I made it back to visit again in December. I brought some very nice and thoughtful gifts for him and the family just out of the kindness of my heart. His family had been very warm and welcoming during the first visit, so I offered to bring them something. I bought him two different wetsuits and some other spear fishing equipment, which he was supposed to just hold onto the money for our adventures since he couldn't send what he had through their Western Union. I helped, but I don't think he put as much money aside as he said he was going to. We seemed to almost always be doing things that were either very cheap, or free. I think he was keeping as much of the money for himself as he could, because it didn't add up, and there should have been a bit left over. I didn't make a big deal since I was a guest and they took me in.

During this second trip, I noticed he had been signing into a couple of fake Facebook accounts. I decided to check them out, and both had correspondence of the inappropriate nature with women from all over the world, of course. The conversations made it obvious he was meeting these women from the webcam sites and trying to get them to play with him when he said he was going to sleep. He had been talking to these women the entire time we had been together. He even told some of them to come visit him in Morocco. I guess they were a little smarter than me.

I felt really humiliated at that point and tried to leave, but the family stepped in and asked me to stay. I don't think they really understood too much, and of course he lied to them to make it look like I was just upset for no reason. Later he apologized for all of that and agreed to delete the fake accounts he was using. Not too reassuring when you know he can just make another one in minutes. I don't think the trust was ever the same after that point. I just felt awful the rest of that trip. At one point, I was literally sick one day and he basically said I was just lazy and didn't feel like doing anything. I really didn't feel like explaining myself to a complete idiot that day, so I let him leave me there and go surf with his friends. I hung in there for the rest of that trip, also, and it seemed like almost all of the things we did centered around what he wanted to do.

He didn't take the things I wanted or needed into consideration too much. I think there was ONE day we actually spent the whole day together without any friends or family or surfing. I had bought a camera for that trip as well, and I spent about 1/3 of the time I was there filming him at his request, which made me feel like he was being a little selfish with the time I had left. I was only there for 3 weeks. After I left to go home, it seemed like he suddenly missed me more and wanted to try to work on things.

We were to meet in Bali next, in June. I was a little nervous and unsure about him being responsible enough to handle paying his own way. He did end up asking me to pay for his whole ticket, and when I told him I wasn't going to have the money for two tickets at once, he told me he should just go alone if I can't help him. That felt pretty awful after all of the other sweet things I had done. I stopped talking to him again at that point, but I continued to make excuses for him. He was just younger and stupid and maybe his culture encourages certain behaviors. It still didn't make it any more fun for me.

I also found out that he had gone back to the fake Facebook accounts he told me he deleted because he 'needed something from them.' I'm sure that was exactly it, but he promised to make them gone after that, and they were deleted soon after. We kept going and fighting again and again because he kept making choices that were bad for our relationship. The biggest thing that was bothering me were the comments he would make about my appearance. I think he said things more to try to break my spirit so I wouldn't feel good about myself, because he was always putting himself up very high and thought he was better than me. He had some cute Facebook pics, but in person it wasn't quite the same. Still not BAD, but you know what I mean.

He had an inflated ego based on the attention he got as an Instagram surfer, that kind of thing. He really seemed to need a lot of attention from social media. A LOT. I think he had some problems with his own self-confidence and wanted me to feel like I was beneath him to control me more. Too bad for him, I wasn't having it anymore. I came to the realization that I was a lot happier with myself and the way I looked before he came along, and the only way I could feel good about myself again is to get rid of the one person who made me feel like there was ever anything wrong with me. HIM. I tried to approach him nicely and tell him how he has made me feel about myself, and he just started blaming me for everything again. It was my choice to feel the way that I do, and I could just choose to be happy instead.

It was my fault for starting all of our fights and just being so sick and so crazy. I told him I didn't want to be with him anymore, because I was tired of being treated that way, and he started attacking my character and appearance again. He reminded me again that I was not the only girl in this world. I told him he was welcome to go find someone he was actually happy with, since he seemed to have such a big problem with me. We didn't talk for 5 days after that, and when we did, I told him my decision to end our relationship was final. He went on to create several different fake Facebook accounts to harass me with over the past couple of days. As soon as I would block one, he created a new one that wasn't blocked.

He says the same things every time. He was soooo sorry and he loves me so much and he will make everything better if I just give him one more chance, but then nothing changes. Typical pattern of abuse. Speaking of which, I found a checklist that mental health professionals use for victims of psychological abuse by their partners, and the ONLY things I could not check off and rate at the highest degree of frequency were because we did not have children together. I have hesitated on the ideas of children and marriage. He seemed to want to rush both, but we had agreed to wait until I finished school for children to be a possibility, which was two more years. For the marriage, he kept insisting we hurry on that since the paperwork could take a while and he just wanted to come see me so bad. He did nothing to help me financially with anything during this whole process.

None of the trips or the paperwork he wanted me to submit for the fiance visa (still haven't, and definitely not happening now). He claimed he worked and made some money helping with a small family business attached to their house, which may have been true, but he never said anything about it or mentioned it until I started getting curious about what he was doing, other than surfing, and why I seemed to be expected to handle so much financially. He never seemed to have anything to show from that, and certainly never helped me with anything at all, if he did.

At one point, he told me he had a former girlfriend who died in an accident to make me feel bad and talk to him when we were fighting. These men will literally say anything to make you come back to their madness. I asked him when he first told me about it what the girl's name was, and he told me. Later I would ask him that again because my better instincts were telling me I still can't trust him, and of course the second time, he forgot he had already been asked the same question and gave me a completely different name. He also stated before that when I asked that nobody in his circle of family or friends could verify this girl ever existed.

I told him he was a terrible person who can't seem to stop telling so many lies, and have since deleted my Facebook and Instagram accounts, because that was the only way I could keep him from contacting me in those places. I have also had to block his phone number so he can't call or text me. IIt is REALLY going to take NO CONTACT with this person to rid him from my life, but it needs to happen. I came into this situation with an open mind and open heart, not wanting to believe any of the negative stereotypes I have learned. Unfortunately, HE made all of those things true all by himself. I'm sure things would only get worse if I stayed.

My advice to anyone who is contacted by these men is to stop everything before it starts. Ignore them, block them, whatever you have to do. Just keep them away from you because they will promise you love and happiness and break you down instead.

Sorry that was long. There is more if anyone has any questions. Time to take care of MYSELF again!


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10Glad you are back. [50 words]LotusFeb 21, 2018 19:26242229
9So glad to be out of it for good [426 words]BluecloudJun 16, 2018 09:52242229
28Serious issues [235 words]SheilaFeb 14, 2018 14:21242228
13yes very serious Issue [179 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 14, 2018 21:21242228
19Could not agree more Sheila [114 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 15, 2018 03:47242228
20Stephanie (Jessica) [123 words]SheilaFeb 15, 2018 21:13242228
23NOT COMPLETELY.....Sheila [63 words]PERLA JAYEFeb 17, 2018 21:28242228
21Friends and Advice [22 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 18, 2018 15:44242228
21absolutely true [88 words]ChelseaFeb 19, 2018 14:06242228
24Ladies, please !!!! [155 words]Lana(USA)Feb 13, 2018 21:03242217
11YES LANA AGREE [42 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 14, 2018 23:54242217
25K1 Visas in the US [49 words]SheilaFeb 12, 2018 18:05242203
24thank you those that understand me. [326 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 14, 2018 00:25242203
31Dislike button [141 words]AnonFeb 15, 2018 03:11242203
12When Is America going to learn shooting after shooting [140 words]JessicaFeb 15, 2018 10:06242203
16Off-topic Post [7 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 18, 2018 15:03242203
18Attention: Jessica: Guns! Should they be banned? Should we also ban building skyscrapers and ban flying planes and ban trucks because they have been used by Muslim terrorists? [251 words]dhimmi no moreFeb 19, 2018 08:04242203
42Stephanie (Jessica) [167 words]SheilaFeb 12, 2018 18:00242202
16Replies yo Sheila [236 words]JessicaFeb 13, 2018 13:49242202
11HEY SHEILA [550 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 13, 2018 21:07242202
33THIS POST IS FOR SIOBHAN [484 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 13, 2018 21:50242202
11No Sheila you had the date mixed up [111 words]JessicaFeb 14, 2018 12:54242202
24Reply to Stephanie (Jessica) [398 words]SheilaFeb 14, 2018 15:07242202
29Stephanie (Jessica) [63 words]SheilaFeb 14, 2018 15:11242202
28Insecure [380 words]AnonFeb 14, 2018 16:42242202
31Jessica Dear [179 words]SiobhanFeb 15, 2018 03:40242202
18TO SHEILA [51 words]CANDY APPLEFeb 15, 2018 19:46242202
25Send me Mohamed's Facebook [33 words]JokerFeb 15, 2018 20:05242202
24Finding Mo [1 words]Yours TrulyFeb 16, 2018 15:24242202
22FINDING MO [32 words]PERLA JAYEFeb 17, 2018 21:14242202
12JESSICA [88 words]PERLA JAYEFeb 25, 2018 12:46242202
12Re: Anon saying INSECURE [222 words]AnonymousApr 2, 2018 21:32242202
8***ARAB BUZZ*** [42 words]noorApr 9, 2018 02:46242202
Mohamed [56 words]SmittenJul 12, 2018 15:02242202
4I fail to understand [113 words]PrashantJul 18, 2018 22:11242202
32Drama on the forum [153 words]SheilaFeb 12, 2018 17:51242201
19Exactly Sheila [231 words]JessicaFeb 13, 2018 14:09242201
43Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men [455 words]ChelseaFeb 7, 2018 16:53242128
29WELL CHELSEA IM BACK [1514 words]jessica (canada)Feb 9, 2018 17:17242128
10To all liberal western women [91 words]NationalistFeb 10, 2018 08:44242128
19Chelsea and Karen been bad mouthing me all along. [296 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 11, 2018 01:15242128
19Perfect advice. [108 words]BatkuBatakFeb 12, 2018 06:26242128
11you are right Nationlist. [117 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 15:52242128
29You are disgusting [75 words]Candy AppleFeb 12, 2018 17:17242128
15I did a little research...not really familiar with Turkish men. But I did find a little info. [320 words]ChelseaFeb 12, 2018 20:59242128
11replies to Nationalist [222 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 22:53242128
7Candy Apple you are right [278 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 13, 2018 20:14242128
38Your Mohamed [84 words]AnonFeb 13, 2018 20:29242128
20TO JESSICA [121 words]Candy AppleFeb 13, 2018 21:20242128
20TO ANON [404 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 14, 2018 22:59242128
21Jessica [115 words]AnonFeb 16, 2018 20:03242128
20Defending Relationships [42 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 18, 2018 15:12242128
18Political Views and Dating [30 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 18, 2018 15:19242128
19One sided [68 words]AnonFeb 20, 2018 09:59242128
2Omg Candy Apple are we twins?!?!?! [13 words]CandyKissFeb 26, 2018 23:50242128
13Re: Your Mohammed [63 words]AnonymousApr 2, 2018 20:41242128
8Not All Are Bad...But Use Your Head, Not your Heart [1025 words]Jordana Ghannam AhmedApr 4, 2018 22:53242128
13Guidelines to Dating. [646 words]LuhxFeb 2, 2018 19:58242056
4You nailed it with this post.. a spot on [296 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 6, 2018 02:44242056
30Response luhx you're wrong [100 words]MaryFeb 6, 2018 06:04242056
32Mary you are true [729 words]ItranFeb 6, 2018 17:30242056
18Mary you are so wrong [446 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 9, 2018 00:15242056
9WRONG AGAIN MARY [692 words]jessica (canada)Feb 9, 2018 18:46242056
337 years?? [57 words]AnonFeb 9, 2018 21:26242056
7Somewhat agree with you Itran [374 words]jessica (canada)Feb 10, 2018 13:52242056
17again painting all mena men with the same brush. [366 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 11, 2018 03:05242056
13replies to Anon [45 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 15:16242056
26Defensive [112 words]AnonFeb 13, 2018 13:59242056
8To Anon [161 words]JessicaFeb 14, 2018 20:31242056
8somewhat agree Anon [161 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 14, 2018 23:33242056
18UK Anon [27 words]SiobhanFeb 15, 2018 04:11242056
21Siobhan [40 words]AnonFeb 16, 2018 03:39242056
19Anon and Siobhan [56 words]KittyFeb 16, 2018 14:17242056
17"Oh but he's waited so long..." [158 words]AnonFeb 16, 2018 19:50242056
22Jealousy [76 words]AnonFeb 16, 2018 20:15242056
24LoL Kitty and Anon [291 words]SiobhanFeb 17, 2018 09:15242056
39Why are there so many down votes to this [66 words]Straight_Talk_LuigiFeb 18, 2018 15:17242056
17haha...you are so right about a lucrative air conditioning service [249 words]ChelseaFeb 19, 2018 13:53242056
24exactly STL..welcome back [105 words]JessicaFeb 19, 2018 16:49242056
14TO MARY [212 words]LuhxFeb 19, 2018 17:29242056
15ITRAN.... [545 words]LuhxFeb 19, 2018 17:42242056
23Sign me up [117 words]AnonFeb 20, 2018 10:08242056
13Luxh [457 words]ItranFeb 20, 2018 15:17242056
66 months [45 words]ItranFeb 20, 2018 16:36242056
14Anon [72 words]KittyFeb 21, 2018 19:56242056
20RESPONSE TO LUHX [262 words]PERLA JAYEFeb 23, 2018 09:44242056
3Very true [47 words]LinaMar 14, 2018 05:53242056
5mary is correct [88 words]AnnMar 22, 2018 09:02242056
8Mohamed [4 words]noorApr 9, 2018 14:37242056
TF? [53 words]LuhxJun 17, 2018 14:13242056
2The truth is what it is .... [338 words]realitybitesJun 28, 2018 18:35242056
27My story!! [994 words]JessJan 31, 2018 00:57242022
20Hello Jess - I read your story [256 words]ChelseaFeb 1, 2018 22:15242022
10Chelsea [19 words]JessFeb 2, 2018 23:46242022
3your guy sounds psychotic [41 words]jessica (canada)Feb 3, 2018 12:28242022
5to jessica [23 words]JessFeb 6, 2018 00:09242022
41Give up your fantasy Jessica/ Stephanie [53 words]Karen from CanadaFeb 6, 2018 05:50242022
23Wow Karen from canada [154 words]JessicaFeb 8, 2018 22:41242022
15Are you sure Karen [40 words]JessicaFeb 8, 2018 22:47242022
9That explains it Jess [27 words]JessicaFeb 8, 2018 23:37242022
32Jessica/Stephanie/Ruth/multiple personalities [93 words]Karen from CanadaFeb 10, 2018 05:52242022
20Karen and Chelsea [142 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 00:21242022
15WOW YOU ARE SICKER THAN YOU THOUGHT KAREN [74 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 15:24242022
12you sure dont understand english Karen [163 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 15:30242022
23YOU REALLY DO SOUNDS SICK [202 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 15:40242022
20Karen/Psychotic/multiple personality/grow up [192 words]Jessica (canada)Feb 12, 2018 16:14242022

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