It was planned Nora

Submitted by Chelsea, Apr 12, 2017 at 23:18

I can relate to you. Mine was on about 3 years and thankfully I turned him in because of his lies before he got his interview. Just in time too.

Look..12 years with a manipulator and cheater gonna take some healing. I suggest you break ALL contact. Secure yourself and don't follow any emotions. Think with your head.

This can happen to anyone so don't be too hard on yourself. They suck you in and brainwash you to the point you cannot think clearly.

Listen.....he is psychotic and dangerous. Take every step to protect yourself. Also with these men....they often come back for more.....they wait til they believe you are really emotionally broken and missing them AND you probably will.....but you gonna have to stand strong lady on this one.

I almost lost my life too. And like you tried to make it work but was only draining emotionally and could have cost me a ton.

It was hard but I finally broke that contact. Bout 6 months later he is back. Stay with this group. You gonna need it.

Please take this seriously. Family of his was in on everything. We were a means to an end to them. Mine had it planned out to the T. Every move word and all that control

Now with telling you this I can understand exactly why you stayed in this for I did the same.

Even though he was cut off from the states still he knows people here and I have secured for myself a place that is double secured. It is this serious. Yes.....protect and value your life.

Money is nothing compared to peace safety and freedom. Also don't give him one more minute of your time. He has taken enough

Nora. I am sorry you went through this. This is a very horrific story and also very dangerous. Please take the steps to protect yourself...any finances you have together and disappear ...these men are destroyers. I am glad you are away. Stay safe and love to you.,..Chelsea

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