Moroccan scammer wasted 12 years of my life, left after getting gc

Submitted by Nora (United States), Apr 8, 2017 at 17:04

Hi everyone, Im new here so I dont really know where to post. I am devastated and need to vent.

I met a Moroccan man about 12 years ago in the USA where we live. He was funny, nice, smart, sweet, had his own place & car. We hit it off and are the same age. I fell in love immediately. I found out 6 months after that he was married to an older woman and was crushed. Older by like 20 years but said they never had sex and it was for business purposes only. He divorced her and married me. He had some mental issues and tried to kill me so he was in jail for a few years. I stayed by his side the entire time, and he still did not have a green card. At that point we thought he was going to be deported but he was not. He got out, everything was fine. It was the best time with him for about 6 months. Then he begged me to bring his parents here from Morocco and his sibling. That cost me about $12000 with the airfare for 3, food, restaurants, gifts, etc.

Ok so he started going out with friends (other Moroccans) shortly after that, which was fine but I know how these people are so I was weary. Then we moved closer to his uncle that is in the usa (total scumbag). The drinking, weed, going and staying out all night started, not paying a dime to bills but working 7 days a week, using our car and taking it day and night, these are just some of the things. I really loved him, I wanted to make things work. I was in the house day and night because I have no friends or family in this area, no transport since he had it all the time and I kind of felt that he kept me in the house inadvertently. This was for 2, almost 3 years.
One day we got into a huge fight as usual, I went to the car and slept there for a while. I found under the seat an appointment reminder for a woman. I looked her name up on Facebook, and she was a crackhead so probably a prostitute. When I went back I confronted him with the card, he ripped it up immediately and said he didnt know where it came from. Anyway, I got a settlement and we moved to another apartment in hopes of things possibly getting better?
At this point, hes working nonstop (or so he says) doing food delivery like most of the other MENA men in the USA (uber, lyft, food delivery or limousine this is just my observation). I hardly see him, we hardly speak, he gets aggravated when I call him on the phone too much. I know he tried sometimes but his backwards culture and his schizophrenia also were huge hurdles.

So here I am, he had gotten his green card and left. How he got it was a miracle, he had actually committed violent crimes but was not convicted, I have no idea how the interviewer granted him anything! He left once, came back. Left again, and is being aided by his Moroccan buddies with a vehicle and someone is letting him use their name for Uber (which I have already called about). He is planning to go to Morocco, and honestly I am gutted. I know that a marriage is hard, but I spend over 100k on this guy since we have been together, I have pulled 98% of the bills alone, and I am an attractive, well rounded, educated woman. I have a feeling his family did black magic on me, that is what my family says constantly. Most recently his mother flew here from Morocco supposedly because we were having marriage problems (I call BS, they are all the most manipulative backwards people I have ever met, not to mention selfish). She tried to "help" and he acted ok for a few days after he left, but I have this feeling I was for papers. I want to contact INS and explain my story, although I dont think it will do any good.

So in short, if youre hooked up with a Moroccan please reconsider.I have heard my own story tooo many times before; they are a country of trash men trying to escape to the west or Europe by any means necessary. I cringe when I hear of a woman married to a Moroccan. They are a brutal, scamming, begging, no good lot. I've wasted over a decade with this man, just for him to walk out when he got the green card. It seemed like it was all planned!

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