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Dear Adeline,stay strong!!!

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Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Apr 6, 2017 at 20:45

Hello Adeline

Please stay strong and stay away from him!

I know that most of us, at some point in life, were naive and open to new beautiful romance we all dreamed of....unfortunately,not all fairy tales end well,like in the Disney or Hollywood movies....

Especially when you are young and, as a good ,decent person,you tend to see only good things in others,and grant your trust to someone, you like a lot ,way too soon-before he puts any effort to earn it -not with his sweet talk,but with actions of the Right person.

You should not feel ashamed of what happened,as it only shows that you are a human being:caring,passionate,lovely.
See it as a life lesson and move on.

You do not need an approval from someone in order to be confident.
You are beautiful,intelligent,well-educated lady,and it is his loss that he did not take time to know you better and to like you for who you are, rather than for what you have to offer, to boost his ego.

Luckily,he did not harm you,or did not do anything really cruel ,and you tend to go in circles with good moments you spend together,his sweet words he said to you in that moments,but in long run there is a road to nowhere...His words are completely opposite with his actions,he is messing up with your head!

It is not in his intention to plan your future together,to share his life with you,to take care of your emotional needs.
Otherwise he will not be sneaking around and being only interested to keep you as a secret object for his personal pleasure.He will be more caring about you and your feelings,he will be having a deep and sincere conversation with you.

It is better sooner than later to move on now,no matter how harsh things could feel.

Love yourself more and do not let anyone to dull your sparkle.Read new books,watch new movies,learn new skills,travel and see new places,explore the world!

You have a good straight plan in mind,so stick to it, and hopefully,we will read soon from you with your new happy story.

STAY STRONG,GIRL!!!

Hugs!
Lana.

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