A few points

Submitted by Standfree (United States), Mar 31, 2017 at 16:19

First, please relax, I know you feel horrible for losing your virginity to such an ass, but it has happened and now you must not beat yourself up. Second, he is not religious as he might want you or everyone to believe, in Islam, he is not allowed to date, and having sex out of marriage is a big no no. Also he is probably lying to you about being in the military, first he could never marry anyone that is not Egyptian, and he would not be out of Egypt, it is not that easy to come and go in their military. I would venture to guess he wants to make sure with everything that is going on in the USA the he can secure his visa. They will amp up their game. I can guarantee you, this pos is like the rest of them. Let me just say, it is very rare to find love at first sight, I mean lust yes we have all felt that. But in the real world, if someone is declaring love to you especially since they do not know you, they have picked up on the fact that you have low esteem, or you have explained to them your situation and how you feel toward love. People do not fall in love like these men claim. It not real. Love is a process.

You have done nothing wrong, move on count your blessing you are not stuck with this pos, and be thankful you are not his meal ticket. There are plenty of men in this world. And to be honest, being alone and learning to love yourself is not a bad thing either.

I speak from experience, nothing, no one can change a pos.

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