NEVER LOOK BACK!!! HE DOES IT ON PURPOSE!!!

Submitted by Lana(USA) (United States), Mar 20, 2017 at 08:25

Dear Chelsea and everyone who has same experience.
PLEASE DO NOT FALL BACK FOR THIS TRAP!!!
I know how it feels-by the time you think ,you are over him,he suddenly appears and "wants you back",or at least make s you believe ,he does!

He is not worth it!
It is typical for a person with Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder to keep you hooked up,
and if you will respond ,he will boost his ego,knowing that you still hurt,still remember him.

THIS IS NOT LOVE! True love will make you feel happy and content.Because true love will not make you suffer,feeling insecure and lost in emotions,making you to ignore his poor manners- just because you are in love with the idea of"what if..." with him.
This is mental control over you.And you are much better than that!

Please,read about the Narcissists in Quora,there are plenty helpful articles on such topic,to help to understand such behavior:
https://www.quora.com/topic/Narcissistic-Personality-Disorder.

But also-do not waste your time,investigating on him,and forgetting yourself.Do something that you did not do in a while and enjoy it.
Hope that helps!!!
Hugs!
Lana

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