Adeline

Submitted by Lina (United Kingdom), Mar 20, 2017 at 07:45

Please stop for a minute and put things into perspective. You already know how this man is making you feel - used. Not only is he using you for sex, he's also a BIG hypocrite. Adeline, you're not even allowed to date in Islam and he's doing all this!

I'm sure he's said some very sweet things to you - they all do - but behind our backs is a totally different story. These men could win the Nobel prize.

Adeline, I've been in your position and I know how easy it is to get carried away, but believe me it's not worth it. First of all, you've done nothing wrong - there's no shame in falling in love with the wrong person or taking things a bit further than planned, it makes you human. But there's no future with a man that will happily sleep with you but has yet to put a ring on your finger. Would you accept this from a Christian man?

Even if he does propose to you, do you realise how much of yourself you will need to change?

I often advise women to just have a sexual relationship, if anything, with these men, and that anything else is just unrealistic ... but even then women get caught up in their emotions ... what I mean is not every woman is capable of NSA (no strings attached) fun.

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