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Reader comment on item: Advice to Non-Muslim Women against Marrying Muslim Men
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Submitted by outback (Russia), Mar 20, 2017 at 07:07

It's better to be safe with them,whether gorgeous and /or well endowed.There are many from that region having dubious and invisible connection with underground movements.They are capable of and are indeed sanctioned by their faith to lie.Deception is very common.

Irrespective of their ethnicity,these people are opportunists.I don't wish to dig up many other issues but mind well,these are the people who shouldn't have come to the U.S.A. There are many,in fact most poor Syrians,who are living in that hell called Syria being hit by various groups.They are not leaving Syria,which is very important.

He told you that you have to marry him after having sex with him.He was trying to trap you.He would have converted you,had you fallen for his charms and promises.If you are raised a Christian and are converted to any other religion,there is a whole lot of conflict in the mind.Many don't acknowledge it but I have seen it at close quarters.These people are entering everywhere because their nations don't grant them their dreams.Instead of working hard, resolving the conflict( granted it seems difficult at the moment) and getting help from western nations to develop their own nation,they are relocating purely for selfish goals.They had money so they relocated.Everyone has a right to come up in life anywhere in the world but leaving their brethren behind and getting into relationships,bagging citizenship and THEN calling ALL relatives to the new place is absolutely selfish and does not deserve any sympathy.

Mind well,these people,if they can afford, can officially marry 4 women and can have innumerable concubines.Don't get humiliated like this.

Till now you have managed well and stay strong.Marry within your own clan.The ideal person is not necessarily handsome but should be of the the culture to avoid conflicts as much as possible and should be able to stay with you forever.Appearance simply vanishes,physical attraction wears thin after 6 months and what is left is whether he/she is faithful or not.The superficial exotic appeal is to be ignored.

He will get in touch with you again.It's always possible that you,being human and stressed under your own condition/situation,might feel like getting in touch with him.Beware. Best luck.

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