To Nadia

Submitted by MLID (My life is a disaster ) (United States), Mar 8, 2017 at 05:37

Hi Nadia, my ex husband was from Ain el Kebira, province and country Setif-Algeria, his mother and father are first cousins and I never knew this until he was here and we were married. This is not accepted in America. First cousins are blood related. I have double first cousins in my family because my 2 first cousins who are sisters married 2 brothers and their children are double first cousins. He said his father is Arab and never really said about his mother. I never got the truth because he was what I call wishy washy. He said Arab and something about being a gypsy. I said what? He never would discuss it again. I really don't know what the truth is.

At the time when I first came on here I didn't post all details because the situation was still currently going on and he told me he was reading on sites about what western women had to say about what mena men do I thought he may come here and it did scare me to post much because my first thoughts were he will beat me again if he figures it out. He's Algerian so good chance he has read on here. He talked about how awful western women are. We drink. smoke, take drugs , and have sex. I said not all western women are like this because I was one who wasn't and I told him you think you're as pure as the driven snow. He has a nerve to mention sex after the sex addict he is.

Anyway I had a great lawyer who didn't come cheap by any means and I also think I was blessed with the judge we had because not all are like he is. He has a very good reputation. If I had someone else things may not have turned out as they did in my favour. Many times they don't do anything and that's one reason why America has millions of illegals here. Hopefully Trump can take care of it because for example I know of a family who are on welfare and the taxpayers pay for it and there's not a reason they should be on it. The man speaks English well enough and his health is fine. He could get a job. They also receive food stamps because they have children. It's a free life in a 1st world country. My Dad is a strong determined man. He is a good man and does not hate anyone but my ex pushed him to he admitted he hated him and he knew he had to get forgiveness for it. It's easier to move on and try to put it all behind with him gone and there's not any more contact.

I feel blessed because not everyone would have been as fortunate as I have . I lost a lot especially my child but he will answer for it. I believe in this. I hope I answered all your questions. If any more let me know. Best regards to you and love to France from America <3

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