To ANNE

Submitted by Nadia, Feb 27, 2017 at 15:19

hi, glad You got some news and he is alive. Maybe for the first week he did not know he is getting married? The family sometimes taks them by surprise. His stay is very long for an innocent vacation. What about his job in the UK? Or he has his own business? You'll soon find out but meanwhile, please, check out other options as I do not think this relationship could work no matter how much effort You both put into. Cynthia also wrote something along these lines. These men are not worth the stress and hassle. You have very different values systems plus his family will never ever accept You as his wife. I just saw so many girls waste their time with MENA and men from the subcontinent I do not want to see another girl heartbroken. Wise up and move on. Tell him what You want and expect and if he can not provide say Your Ferewell. Not Good bye. It is often good riddance. He is in touch with relatives and family members so he could find a way to contact You or at least to say he will not be in contact for such and such period. And no more sex when he comes back and no more hospitality (do not have him come to Your place). For many paki and arabs We are free of charge prostitutes.

You will get over very quickly. He betrayed You and strung You along, he chose to do as his family told him and that is more than enough in order to give him the boot. It sounds harsh and it is but life is not always flowers and pink glasses

. Good luck lass and enjoy life. Kisses to London and Londonners from a former resident and greetings from France

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