Hi Nadia

Submitted by Marissa (United States), Feb 26, 2017 at 21:18

He wanted marriage and proposed to me the first time we met. That's when I got the silver ring. I told him no because he started talking about the K1 visa. Pushing me basically. He asked to borrow money and I said no. He said he had to borrow the money just to meet me from his friend . Well he can figure out how to pay his friend back if this is even true. He does not have a job as of last week. He raised hell about that job talking about the hours were too long. He worked 7.5 hours a day and off on weekends. He went to the University but it seems his diploma is useless. He would say I'll make it all up to you one day. To you and our baby. I said baby ? I said we're not even getting married and I cut the trip short because he was trying to push a religious marriage on me to have sex. I told him to f#%* himself. I'm sorry for the language but it's how I feel. I'm a strong minded and strong willed person and not easily fooled. I'm not hurt. I'm mad but you know what I've laughed about it because I know I destroyed his plan he had.

Sad thing is he's probably on the internet right now looking for another victim. He found me on Facebook. How I do not know. He said my profile showed up in suggestions. I didn't see any way we were connected for this to happen. I'm going to be fine because I'm fortunate compared to some of these women on here. I think of him as being a nasty fly that I had to swat down fast!!!

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