Hey this is Chelsea

Submitted by Chelsea (United States), Jan 26, 2017 at 11:44

You are seeing truth. From experience I can tell you that these men study how to charm and manipulate. They study immigration as well. In that culture.... Lying is OK....but not for the woman. They do target girls online....even Facebook. They can tell the emotional state of the girl by her postings. They will profile their target so that they can say the right things and make the girl feel like she is getting a soulmate.

Your concerns are so valid. Women are worth only half of a man and even though he says the right things now....he will change once he has her trapped. It is not even so much a religious thing but a cultural issue. Please try to make her aware.

So many bad and life changing decisions are made when we think with our hearts and not our heads....especially the vulnerable.

They can destroy a woman... even from their own culture. I wish this was not so....however seeing the unhappiness of the women over there I see it as truth. One woman was pregnant and he beat the child out of her...she told me the story in Arabic and even though I did not understand all her words....I did understand her torment grief pain and tears.

This girl is so young. Please advise them to do some study and ask questions before being trapped. There is very little punishment if any for the men over there that do things in the name of honor.....like kill.

Sorry I have not responded sooner. Blessings to you. Chelsea

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