You'll pull thru this, be strong

Submitted by Jenna (United States), Jan 26, 2017 at 01:24

I'm so sorry you're suffering. I know from personal experience how bad you're suffering. You need to find a small piece of hatred in your heart and nourish that hate. Once you can hate him you'll become stronger. Don't beg him to come back. He wants his ego fed. These assholes are all about ego. Right now, your heart is broken and you can't imagine tomorrow without him, but please believe me, you are better off without him. You will pull thru this and you will be so much stronger and more intune. Then you'll want to hurt him the way he hurt you.... If you can slight him and act like you don't know him, especially in public in front of people, you will crush him. This act will crush his giant ego.

Believe me. It took me two years to get that strong, and I had my day. That stupid man was beside himself. Then I saw the girl he was with, that jerk snapped his fingers and she went running to him! I felt so very sad for her. I saw what my life would have been like had he stayed with me. I'm positive he beat her later on and punished her because I treated him like a total stranger and didn't even acknowledge his existence. Find anything inside yourself to hate him and let that hate burn. The hate will get you thru. You will conquer this and believe me, you don't see it now, but this will pass, you'll heal and be better, smarter, stronger, and sexier. I promise. I'm also 40 years old and had the same symptoms when Said left me. I swear, their ego is how you crush them. They will cry over their ego getting brushed. Please dry your tears, stand up and look at yourself and say out loud "I'm strong, I don't need him, I don't want him, I choose my life" scream this if you have to and get angry, and hate him. That will get you thru this. Don't ever let him know he hurt you

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