Not at all your fault.

Submitted by Viraj (Russia), Jan 25, 2017 at 09:37

No,Ms.Christy,you didn't do anything wrong.He was onto this anyway.

This would have happened sooner or later.Be happy that you were saved.

Now it's natural to brood over this but pick up yourself,stand tall and march on.You have been great.How else could you have known this man,without getting close to him?. So don't blame yourself for choosing him in the first place.Don't accept him back,even if he wants you to cry and beg for him( that's probably why he mentioned a woman/wife from his own country). Don't allow him to emotionally blackmail you.

Yesterday is gone,today and tomorrow are yours.Best luck.

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