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Is this love naayla

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Submitted by Mandy (United Kingdom), Nov 24, 2016 at 05:14

Hi yes he does sound like a scammer. The reason I say that is bcz I met a lovely woman last year who had married a moroccon man.
Same issues how he was mysterious changed his time for her never said I love you anymore but this one always wants money. He doesn't have visa yet as haven't applied due to finance but now it's time and she's told him she's had enough speaking to her like a child and in bad way and wants divorce no visa. Now he has changed all nice again but the problem is she has fallen deeply in love with him so it's hard to let go. She also has to pay for visa it's slot of money. If I marry I e made it clear he pays his own visa etc I don't have any money. Mine is still lovely have our bad days bcz of distance etc but still calls all day messages I love you out of the blue in middle of night etc. just wants to be here to be together watching TV walking simple things. It's been 18 months now and we will marry now.

He has used the word hurry but I don t take that negative as he's strung out when I'm not there. Yes we have a lot of making love but kisses and cuddles all day lol which is better. He told me last night he can't wait to be here but I can't wait either now as I'm sick of travelling there each month to put a smile on his face lol. Don't give money. Anyway the mysterious thing this other woman said also and it turned out he was chatting with another and on dating sites. Now they are married. So I feel for her. If he's not constantly annoying you calling you dating I love you. You are gorgeous. I miss you to much etc then he's not in love. I never make first call either as I'm being tough to be safe. It will take at least s year for mine to get here bcz I don't earn enough. They all dream of visa even mine lol but he said it's not a must. He must be in love to stay with anyone as he would be unhappy. His mother advised him recently to forget me bcz I've not been very nice and she's scared for him invade I make him unhappy. It's not easy distance and love. I'll just say you should know by his actions words but mostly actions if he loves you. You will feel in your soul etc. sometimes I think mine is maybe inteligant and patient but surely the mask would be off by now but who knows.

For me I feel loved big time. I'm not so nice I have issues from past and he understands and says it's ok we can fix my thoughts etc. I decided go with the flow and time will tell but only bcz now I'm ready. I've put him through many tests. I spend time there every month getting to know him more. Staying with his family getting to know them more. Watching how he is with friends family people. He isn't perfect and has flaws but 90% good 10 flaws lol big I'm far from perfect with my issues from past. I think he does games with his phone sometimes after I've pissed him off etc. but if doing all the time I would delete him block him finished. I give him a lot of headache and still he forgives so I think mmmmmmmmmmmmmm. He says bcz he loves me and understands I'm like that bcz of distance.

It's not easy honey but be careful of this man. My mans father doesn't speak to me but says when we marry he will bcz European women are risky and she might leave you so until it's official he keeps out my way lol but that's fine. Anyway we are deeply in love and if it doesn't work once he's here then it's life. We all change. Even here I could meet and then finish if doesn't work. We don't really know until he lives with me in another country away from family etc then it's about challenges obstacles. If we are real we will deal with them in proper way. You have to be a team and agree on most things. Tell him yes your a woman but have s voice. Do not divorce your husband. Maybe his wife is giving him the ok to marry. It happens. He doesn't sound right in the head either but only you know. I went through a swamp of shit as I tripped and I was crying and he ran and bought bottled water and scrubbed my feet etc until clean. In public. In medina with everyone looking. He only cared that I was very upset that made me love him more. He does things like that a lot. I'm going to try and who knows our future but for now he's right for me.

I wish you luck but be careful. Test him in many ways that make you feel safe. X

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