Mysterious Persian man living in Dubai

Submitted by Naylaa (United States), Nov 22, 2016 at 22:25

Unsure of how to Handle. Long story but I have become intimate with a Persian man that is a Tour Guide while on tour. Falling in love via text etc but in the beginning wanted sexting. Once I put a stop on that he not only became furious but then became strict getting to know me. From there proved himself not to be an internet sex freak. He had been pressuring me to marry him because I want to be a Muslim. He introduced me to his father and even asked for advice from his Imam. Well I am married and wants me to divorce. I have not.

Since our meeting I have went to visit him. We have expressed our love. The mysterious thing about him is he says he is in trouble for teaching. Sunni so he cannot return to his country ever. He gave me a choice if I wanted to stay. I have met his family members via text. He often disappears sometimes not online and won't tell me what he has been up to. Says one time he was arrested due to his teaching but then said he thought so but it was a real estate deal he transacted years ago but he cleared it up. Since then he has been gone in and out and I can tell he is eirher in hiding or something. Now he has become distant and tells me he loves me but tells me not to ask questions. Doesn't say why but a good wife doesn't ask. He tells me riddles but never his true feelings and have noticed he blames me for my own insecurities or expressions of love.

He sometimes makes fun of gay guys more often but then sends me pictures with gay guys he met in the mall as if it is funny. This man is all over the place. Then he claims he had to sell his car that he drove me in to help his brothers out. He doesn't ask for money but when I offered he refused.i sent him and he seems offended. I ask him to tell me his feelings and he says I should know but I have seen him change.

He isn't as sweet ,no more poems,'I sweet nothings as if we were already married. I still cannot ask questions and he doesn't care if I hurt. However he stil Wants to move forward with our relationship. He won't say I love you and he wants me to meet his father. He won't tell me what's wrong with him as he seems depressed all the time. Has reality finally reached and he cannot get me to give him a passport fast enough. Half the time he is missing and I feel like he is incarcerated. He goes missing

. I know this is all over the but Anyone go thru this? I HAVE met his sister already and a few cousins. I am suppose to visit in a few weeks. I don't know if I am being scammed.

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