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Submitted by Mandy (United Kingdom), May 30, 2016 at 16:21

Hi I am reading your story and yes it seems familiar too much.
I'm sick to my stomach by your story.
Mine is same lovely do anything for me kind of guy.
We met on holiday and then five months later to try you know. Was all knew to me after long marriage. He says he never had relationship before at 28 he was Virgin. How could I tell if that was true or not.
Anyway I go every month and stay with his family all whom are really nice except one sister who told me she disagrees with our relationship.
She says he is to young to marry etc and I should finish. His mother wants marriage. She says I'm older but very beautiful and amazing educated children. Treats them like princesses.
They have never asked me for money in nearly a year now but he is unemployed now and yes I pay everything when I'm there but his mother keeps us feeds us drives us around etc.
anyway I've been trying to break off as I don't want to marry.
He seems amazing in the home and has big big heart and his mother died slot of charity work for single mums.
Today for first time ever they asked to borrow few hundred pounds to pay daughters school fees. She says she will give me in 2 weeks time when she gets salary. I don't know if it's genuine and I already had doubts bcz of this site. He same loves me more than life. I'm his first relationship etc. he is very jealous of my ex who is very rich. Me I don't have money or job at moment and struggle with kids. He says he feels embarrassed asking for money butboromisevtonpsy back in two weeks.
I'm going to give the money and if it doesn't get paid back then obv I will finish for good. Not much to pay if I'm being scammed. Visa is in there but it's who with he says he must love the person. I am very attractive and I have many talents artistically which hopefully soon pays off. Do I trust him bcz its first time asking and I told him hope it's the last. They are not poor have big villa but she's single mum paying university in other countries and private school for another. Living beyond her means for education. She's part time teacher. They same very caring to others and have helped many. I see when I'm there but that could be part of the plan. I feel my head will explode soon reading all these stories. I treat him quite bad to be honest when I'm home. Is witch off phones. He becomes stressed etc. stalking etc. panics etc. is this immature live or a smooth criminal.

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