Love rats

Submitted by Marit (Netherlands), Apr 25, 2016 at 13:32

We call it love rats over here! These are Eastern men surching for innocent Western woman to get a visa or money. From the start there is no love involved from there side but because they are so manipulative and masters in sweet talking your going to believe them. Also because were not known with those kind of things. It all starts on FB, Skype, Viber, Baddoo and more dating sites.

They send you a sweet text and than the whole ' business ' starts without you knowing. Late night Skypes, constandly texting, sweet words. After that they invite you to there countrie and introduce you to the family ( be aware family can be in the business deal to ) they love you so much...overload you with presents and make you feel like one of them. This is all part of the deal. Than the marriage thing starts they will ask you to marrie them. You are the most beautiful woman ever and o fcourse he loves you without even seeing you. It's right after the marriage when he will show his real face. No more sweet words..abusing starts....isolate you from friend and family...you just landed into one big night mare and you cannot come out of it so quickly as you stept into it.

Alway's follow your instinct! A good men wouldn't ask you to marrie him without even seeing him. He dasn't say i love you from the first second. He will respect you and wait until you both ready for the next step. Don't ever do it with less than that. It will keep you away from a lot of trouble and terrible position.

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