Not Sure

Submitted by Hurting (United States), Apr 24, 2016 at 12:41

I think this relationship will drain you emotionally, physically , and financially. I had a long distance relationship with an Algerian men. I read a lot of women on here have been having long distant relationships with Algerian men. He gets mad if something happens if I can't meet him to talk and we haven't had a set time. It will be hours before I hear from him. I had bronchitis for 2 months and my dr said he believes it's from stress because he couldn't find anything else wrong. I'm getting sick with it again today and will have to see a dr again. My guy would even be on Facebook when he said he was doing something else or was suppose to be working or sleeping. He turned his chat off so I couldn't see the light but when I would open up to have conversation it read active. I started turning my chat off and monitoring how long he stayed on and it was longer than someone would if they were just scrolling on Facebook. He much have never checked to see if I was on or just didn't care. He had told me of his unbelievable love which I know is a crock of crap. He has had 4 Facebook accounts in less than 3 years.

For all I know he has some that I don't even know about. It wouldn't surprise me if he dud the get married behind my back. My instincts are screaming for me to let him go and my dr told me to get my stress level under control I had to eliminate as much stress as i could. I ended things this morning with him. He claims I'm wrong about everything and accusing him wrongfully. Of course I don't expect him to tell me the truth. I told him I had enough of the distance and Facebook which led to trust issues. I told him I had enough of him too bc when someone or sometime is stressing me to the point it affecting my health because of stress . I'm putting whatever it is out of my life. I'm tired of getting bronchitis over and over

. My advice to you is to let him go because I'm 99% sure you will one day regret it if you don't. I hope you don't mind me giving you my opinion. I'm in rare form today because I'm very hurt . Time heals broken hearts in cases like mine and yours. I read about someone else on here who lost everything because of one of these men and my heart goes out to her. We should really listen and think about what has been done to her because it can happen to any of us.

Best wishes.

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