Stay strong tulle!!

Submitted by Becs (United Kingdom), Jan 5, 2014 at 18:30

Yes he was with Gemma in nov 2012.. So sorry you had to find out this way.. My ex shady also sent me a message by mistake one day but did not use a name but for sure I know the message was not for me!! He tried to call me a liar and use their romantic words and you believe sometimes but often you then just start to look out for other clues.. And always liars and cheats will make mistakes eventually!! Did he live in delta sharm when you visited? Gemma paid this rent.. Also he was a photographer before and this was his job all the time as him and shady worked together.. Then when he knew Gemma would pay many thousands for him to take the instructor course he decided to do this.. But wanted a new camera after so that is why he contacted her again hoping she still loved him and would buy him this! They work on the boats every day and meet new girls everyday!! So I am sure he is charming other girls.. So sorry to be so harsh but I lived there and saw with my own eyes..

Just like you I hoped that as we were in love mine was different.. Mine wouldn't cheat or lie..!! But sadly he wasn't and Mahmoud is no different.. I saw him with many women after Gemma when as you say now he should have been with you..!! Of course if you confront him he would deny everything..!! They can argue black is white and almost have you convinced!! It is very hard and I can imagine your head is spinning!! But you must stay strong and stay away!! When I found out about mine.. Only by in investigating and finding the woman I got the truth.. Before this he made me feel I was crazy and not trusting.. But as luigi has mentioned in many posts our instincts should not be ignored!! We know something is wrong and we should listen.. I probably knew months before.. As I am sure you did when he said bedtime Gemma..!!

How can you explain that!! What lies could he possibly tell to make that sound good??!! Just be thankful you didn't loose everything!! I gave up my apartment, a well paid job, lots of friends etc to get nothing..!! Many women loose money and Gemma lost a baby.. So yes you will hurt and probably cry and feel very empty and sad inside but you will get better and lead a happy life!! Please just understand he is not worth any more of your time.. No good can come from these lies!! Delta sharm is a horrible place where these men take women there to look like they care when in reality lots of women pass through as its easy for them to pay extra money to the security so they can stay together in an apartment.. It is very sad to see this but please I know he has done this as I know shady has because I had to hear this truth too which hurt me so much but I am happy I know so I don't waste any more of my life!!!

Please stay strong and stay away..!! I am here if you need support! Take care :-)

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