Many thanks for your intelligent words Juana

Submitted by Rachel (United Kingdom), Sep 28, 2013 at 07:21

Juana you are very wise and often wisdom has to come from experience.I am with a muslim man in another country and you say you would not Skype, I see him often and I hate Skype as it is too hard to use to communicate. I have acknowledged all you have said and noted it. I think British men are attracted to these men because they are good looking, charming, kind, loving and affectionate. I am sure there are good news stories but no one will share them. I have seen 'red flags' but no doubt I give off 'red flags'as in any relationship but I would not move out there, give up my home, my business, or my life. But I have a friend that says these men are clever fishermen and gradually reel you in. Is that a regular experience.

I think you have to constantly take a look back, keep in touch with your own culture and try to get both sides of the story.I could set up a forum on British men internet dating for sex and how bad they treat them and maybe the site would be ten times busier??? Thank you

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