Good luck!

Submitted by Danniah (United States), Sep 8, 2013 at 12:12

To Christine,

hello, I'm sorry that you have to go through this. I did not want to respond because they are already giving you advises enough to grab and run. But just one more from me. You remind me of me the first time I experience of this love. That, what if they were wrong and he was right. Confusing isn't? But the taste of rebelling is soooo good. I don't know how your heart is going to take it, when it happens. Yesss i said when because it will happen. I have friends and I know people that are married to Muslim men. One were married for love at first, but were not thinking, now religion is in the way. Shes about to have a baby, he wants him to be a budist her parents are catholic, and it's chaos. Met in this country, by the way. But even that doesn't help when it come to religion.he is not Muslim but all the same. Anyway, going back to your situation. Sounds like he is focus on his career but how is he focus on his career and focus on you at the same time.

Real Muslim can only focus one thing at a time unless they are a hustler. They focus on religion, career and family, their own Muslim family. And if he is successful he is only obligated to muslim woman. Why would he work hard to be successful, then turn around and support,protect an unbeliever.When his muslim women is hungry and no one to protect her. Remember, Muslim men in their world is the provider. My tenants are Muslim, I know. Your friend,is also young, he does not have time to convert you, focus on school and play internet. College is a demanding schedule. If thats what he say he is. At this moment you are just a trophee. I hate to bust your bubble. I could be wrong. But, at your age it might work for a while,and end up relationship you, not him! ending up the relationship hopefully it will be easy for you physically and mentally to get out, when the time comes. Coz sooner or later you will get tired of his demanding request. Cannot have other friends, obsses and posses. Cute for a while but not your lifestyle, if your not a Muslim.

I see the mentality already how he is giving you the choice that the ball is on you, And his just there waiting for you. Manipulation and reverse psychology to lure you. Just be observant, play, but,don't get serious.be careful. And don't fall hard. giving you the guilt that the decision it didn't work out came from you.

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