Kristian we have similar stories!!

Submitted by Becs (United Kingdom), Aug 26, 2013 at 19:33

Omg reading your story is very similar to mine.. I am truly sorry that you also have been sucked into all this!! My life for the last 2 and a bit years has also been hell!! I met my Egyptian idiot when on holiday.. Same beginning I won't bore people as write many posts.. I lived out in Egypt in sharm for a year.. There were many warning signs I should have seen and ran months ago.. The Facebook things, phone calls, crazy jealousy.. The list is too long!! Aggressive behaviour.. Continuous lies!!

He was never married.. Well not to my knowledge.. However I returned to uk this year but my emotions were still all over the place and I have been back twice since the most recent being when he got violent with me.. Anyway long story short I also got wind from people I know still in sharm he had a female companion.. Of which I did see a tel number in his phone and he angrily denied.. Basically I found her on his company diving friends list and I messaged her privately.. Long story short again she did reply and I discovered everything... He had been contacting me saying he loves me wants a life etc and future but met her back in march and had a relationship.. She even moved out there in may and was in a different apartment when I visited.. He told her I was old and crazy and controlling etc but was sick in hospital and he couldn't end things with me until I was better!!! But he also told her that he had a family emergency in Cairo when u visited to put her off the scent!!

He had bought a new phone too and new number.. And she found loads of dirty pics in his phone so she was leaving him anyway as she knew he was playing around with other women but then I messaged her and all this story came out.. I did confront him and if course tried lying saying she was some stupid jelous girl blah blah until I sent him a pic she forwarded me.. And asked him to explain that!! He then denied the new iPhone until I called him withheld and the dumb ass answered!! They are built in to lie and cheat and deceive..

What I can't believe is the complete Webb of lies.. To lie to my face acting so sweet making you feel you are their number 1... When in reality probably number 11116 who knows... I still can't comprehend his double life he was leading and how although I was often suspicious never had proof.. But deep down I knew but still can't believe I thought he loved me and genuinely I was the only one!! I had decided I never wanted him but the lost empty feeling and loneliness never seems to fade!! But I am sure it will in time.. Sharm is full of playboys.. I just genuinely thought mine was different but suppose we all say that!! I thought I was struggling with the country, culture, attitude towards women and etc when now this whole can of worms makes me feel sick that I was just a pawn in his sick game anyway!! So exactly like the other parasites who live there.. I know of many that hurt women.. Reda, shady Ismail, Mahmoud eltair but also know some lovely people.. But me personally will never ever date a Muslim again!!!!!!!!!!

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